It is the responsibility of parents to raise and educate their children. Parents can raise their children, but few parents educate their children well.
Educating children can be roughly divided into the following six aspects:
1. Honesty
We all know the story "Wolf is coming", which tells a story about a child herding sheep on the mountain, and often deceives people to call wolf. The farmers nearby put down their work to save him, but everyone ran to him with hoes, only to find that there was no wolf at all, but the boy lied.
Then the wolf really came, and no one came to save the child no matter how he shouted. This is the result that he often lies, deceives himself and is not believed.
The story tells a truth. No matter whether you are a person or doing things, you should pay attention to honesty and be a person worthy of everyone's trust, so that the future road can be unimpeded.
2. Diligence and simplicity
Diligence and simplicity are the result of our parents' education since childhood, but we can't see them in many children. Some children are lazy, lazy and gluttonous. This bad habit can be seen in many children.
Personally, I think: industry and simplicity are still the foundation of society, which brings others a sense of practicality, while people who are glib, don't make progress and make irresponsible remarks simply can't be liked by more people and have no hope of success.
Some children play games and chat all day and want to be online celebrities. They always fantasize about getting something for nothing, making a lot of money and living a good life as easy as blowing off dust. However, a pie in the sky can only be wishful thinking.
Diligence and simplicity are still the indispensable and precious essence in future life and survival.
be responsible for
A responsible person, conscientious and trustworthy in quality, can give others trust.
The sense of responsibility is manifested in: working, being a man, raising children, educating children and honoring parents. A responsible person can see and experience everything he does.
Take the simplest cooking as an example. Responsible people can always make delicious meals with simple ingredients, while irresponsible people can't swallow even rare delicious food.
Step 4 be healthy
Good boy's body is red. They play games and chat all night and sleep during the day, which has deviated from the normal routine. If this goes on, it will inevitably bring bad effects to their health.
Some children suffer from diabetes, high blood pressure and heart disease at an early age. Most of these terrible diseases are related to personal diet and living habits, but many people simply don't realize it and still go their own way.
Without a healthy body, everything is in vain.
5. Good psychological quality
Children have good psychological quality, strong endurance and few psychological diseases. Some children are depressed, out of control, irritable, introverted and cowardly. These are all manifestations of psychological imperfection. Only by cultivating children into strong, persistent and psychologically healthy people can they face all kinds of difficulties in life independently and walk through them smoothly, and there is hope for success.
6. The children are very polite
A polite, elegant and polite child will be liked by more people and have more chances of success.
Politeness is manifested in treating people, speaking and behaving, being a man and doing things, and gestures. Every move of a polite person reveals family education and high personal quality, which can bring pleasing feelings to others.
Polite people are also likable people.
Personally, as a parent, the biggest failure is the failure of educating children. To some extent, children are the glory of parents, and the success of children is also the success of parents.
Li Ka-shing said: No matter how successful you are in your career, you can't make up for your failure in educating your children. This sentence deserves every parent's reflection.
Even if a person has a brilliant career, their children are also playboy, unrestrained, self-indulgent, enterprising and helpless people, and what awaits them is bound to be the end of family decline.