In this regard, parents have to spend more time and energy on their children's homework guidance. Parents hope to stimulate their children's interest in learning and make them more serious about the completion of homework.
However, parents need to master some methods and skills if they want their children to do their homework well. It's impossible to make a child obedient just by yelling.
Case:
There is such a video on the Internet. The two brothers do their homework together. At this time, my brother felt that doing homework was a bit boring, so he delayed and refused to continue writing. At this time, my mother was a little angry when she saw it, but instead of forcing my brother to finish his homework, she talked with him about "planning".
Mom said that if you don't do your homework well, your brother's grades will be poor and he won't be able to go to college in the future. More often, he can only make a living by doing some simple basic work.
Then Ma Bao took out the screw tightening machine of her own company. Ma Bao said: This kind of work needs eight hours a day to support itself. If my brother thinks this kind of work is competent, then he doesn't have to continue doing his homework.
As soon as my brother heard that he couldn't do his homework, it was great, so he promised himself that he could work for eight hours.
Although I thought this kind of work was simple and easy at first, after a long time, my brother felt a little tired, and the oil on the screws unconsciously covered his face.
My brother, who had been peeking at the side, found that his brother was so tired that he was sweating profusely. He wanted to try to be lazy and start doing his homework seriously.
Finally, an hour later, my brother couldn't hold on, and took the initiative to "surrender" to his mother, saying that he would finish his homework on time seriously in the future.
Analysis:
In this regard, netizens have said: "This treasure mother's education method is too hard-core. It doesn't take too many times to make the children obey. This kind of education is too efficient. "
"This immediate educational effect is really admirable."
Parental education is not only reasonable, but also not impossible for children to do their homework.
How to get children to do their homework?
(1) Make an appropriate homework plan for children.
When children have a lot of homework, it is necessary for parents to make a suitable study plan for their children, so that the children can learn more orderly and will not have some unnecessary slack because of too much homework.
Through the supervision of homework plan, children can express their positive behavior better.
(2) It is necessary for parents to take time out for consultation.
For children with poor self-control, under the guidance and supervision of parents, children can enter the learning state more, which is also conducive to the development of study habits in the future.
Of course, when parents are tutoring their children, they should not easily interrupt their thinking, otherwise it may be counterproductive and not conducive to the completion of their homework.
(3) Appropriate rewards
For children, the driving force that rewards can bring is very obvious, so parents can provide their children with appropriate reward mechanisms, which will make them do their homework more actively.
However, in the setting of rewards, parents should try to avoid the misunderstanding of material rewards and try to give their children affirmation and encouragement from the spiritual level.
Guiding children to do their homework is an important part of their study habits. It is very important for children's personal growth to be able to arrange their own learning.
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