Reflection on Family Education 1 It is a happy thing for parents to raise their children, and all our hopes as parents are pinned on their children. But educating children is a distressing thing. Parents have worked hard, but children can't realize their ideals. Some children don't like studying more and more. Some parents scrimp and save and try their best to meet their children's various needs, but the children are indifferent and even dissatisfied with their parents. Some children think that their parents' instruction is wordy. What's wrong with children now? Is it because there is something wrong with our family education?
It is not easy to raise a good child. Everything in the family is education, accompanied by life-long growth.
1. Children can be guided to know what health is and how to stay healthy through their family's thoughts and actions. That's all that matters. Without health, nothing else can be said.
2. Educate children with a modest and kind heart and let them have love in their hearts, which is the source of power for the whole family to maintain a harmonious relationship forever.
Tell him the correct mentality of analyzing things, and make him an open-minded, ambitious, visionary, courageous and determined person.
4. Influence him with the attitude of concentrating on his work, so that he can become a meticulous and dedicated person, and can properly evaluate his own labor, and don't stop there.
Family education is not blind love, but a constraint. Family education is not swearing, but leading. Family education is not a fire brigade afterwards, but a firewall beforehand. Family education finds less faults in children and more faults in itself. Either I didn't think about it beforehand or I didn't do it well afterwards. The shortcut is to work and play with children since childhood. Don't push children's time to idle children. Only by making good friends can you become a good person. As parents, we will try our best to cooperate with teachers' education and create a good environment for children's tomorrow and future. By studying, you will certainly find the most suitable educational method for children. Let's work together to weave a bright future for our children.
Reflection on Family Education 2 Before reading the book Family Education, I always thought that good children were always good and bad children were always bad. As for why it is good and why it is not, I haven't delved into it. I think maybe this is my parents' fate. But in fact, this is not life, but education.
Parents are the best role models for children, and parents are always the most important teachers for children. The subtle influence of parents is the greatest influence on children, which is the greatest pressure of parents, so to cultivate and educate children well, we must first start from ourselves.
Nowadays, many parents are selfish, under the guise of creating rich living conditions for their children, as if they are willing to give everything for their children, but in fact, they are rarely willing to care more about their children. The child's words and deeds are imitating adults. Since you brought him into this world, you have the responsibility to care about and love him. Nowadays, due to superior family conditions and many only children, some children do not grow up with their parents, but are taken care of by the elderly. Many parents only visit them regularly. In fact, children especially need the care of their parents when they are young. It's not that the elders don't care about them, but that this love is nothing else. I am ashamed to say that before reading this book, I sometimes complain and feel very tired. Seeing others enjoying life smartly, I live a life around my family, and there is always a "little tail" following me. Now that I think about it, fortunately, for various reasons, I have to take care of the children alone. If you leave your child with your parents, you will definitely regret it later. In the past, children were too stubborn because they were used to being disobedient by the elderly. Fortunately, the child is still young now, and it is not too late to correct it. a thousand
Don't underestimate the child. Don't think he is very young, as if he doesn't know anything. In fact, he knows everything in his heart, but he just can't say it.
I agree with many viewpoints in this book, and I also agree with many methods of educating children mentioned in the book, but it is a bit difficult to really do it, especially if you insist on it for a long time. After reading this book, it gave me a meaningful lesson, and also sounded the alarm for my incompetent mother to educate her children well.
The head teacher once said that educating children is a long-term process. Which parent insists for a long time, which child is the best? If you don't worry about your children now, you need to worry about your children all your life. This sentence is so right. In fact, every child is a genius and every parent is an artist. I believe that as long as our parents choose the right ways and methods and care and educate their children with their heart, then every child is the best.
After reading "Family Education", I carefully read the book "Family Education" and felt very touched. The book is extensive and approachable, not as profound as the general educational theory, easy to be accepted and easy to resonate.
Mr. Chen Heqin said: "Children are born ignorant and don't know what is good and what is bad. His every move can be said to be influenced by heredity, restricted by environment and dominated by education. When I was a child, the most important factor in the environment was my parents, and the most important factor in upbringing was probably my parents. " Therefore, Mr. Wang pointed out that children's "rich knowledge, the development of ideas and the formation of good habits should be entirely responsible for family education." As a mother, I agree with this view, especially the following views are very enlightening to me:
First, grasp the degree between "loving children" and "caring for children"
No matter when the book was published or now, overindulgence and strict autocracy are always two common wrong attitudes and practices. The former is unprincipled love for children, which is harmful to children's physical and mental development, so he emphasizes "love children, but never spoil them". At the same time, he also pointed out that the autocratic and strict discipline method in family education is also undesirable, and the consequences of this discipline method can only be to destroy children's creativity and bind children's thoughts.
Second, children are parents' mirrors.
Chen Heqin warned his parents many times: "The first principle of being a parent is to respect the principle of' leading by example'". Therefore, parents must set an example everywhere. Educating children is actually a process of parents' self-education and self-growth. In order to educate children, we should give up the irregular life as much as possible and obey the rules at any time.
Third, maintain the consistency of education.
Parents and grandparents have different ways of education, and their tolerance and strictness are different. Children will be at a loss, even opportunistic, look down on their elders, and even hypocritical, which is very unfavorable to the cultivation of their healthy personality and moral quality.
Family education is not only an ancient subject, but also a brand-new knowledge. Mr. Chen's research and practice on family education theory has laid a scientific foundation and provided concrete methods for modern family education theory in China, especially some principles and methods put forward in the book Family Education, which are good teaching materials for our modern parents.
With the development of family education today, family education has become a social issue that every family, every teacher, every school and even the whole society are very concerned about. I recently read Family Education, which is the educational monograph of Chen Heqin, a famous modern educator, child psychologist and child education expert in the early 20th century.
Reflections on Family Education The four books comprehensively and systematically explain how parents and school teachers should educate their children. The viewpoints and methods are very comprehensive and practical, helping parents to put forward practical and scientific educational methods in all aspects of educating their children. It is very helpful for me to know your children from the first chapter and record their growth footprints. I used to think that it was enough to have school teachers to manage education. As parents, it is enough to create a reasonable learning environment for children, as long as they learn to listen well. This book suggests that parents should never play the role of parents only according to the laws of nature, but always care about their children's growth with an educational attitude, which is shocking and true.
It is mentioned in the book that the sixth grade has undergone great changes both psychologically and physically, which has a great impact on learning. Under the influence of teachers' formal education and environment, it has been comprehensively and systematically developed, and the consciousness, organization and discipline of learning have also been improved. In learning, due to extensive knowledge learning, learning has become conscious and organized. I can finish my homework in time, help my parents do some housework, and like reading some extracurricular books. With the enhancement of learning ability, correct learning methods are very important. Help children master learning methods, sum up learning rules, especially cultivate children's memory.
Face, only on the basis of memory to understand, understanding can be thorough, only with the participation of understanding to remember, memory will be strong, let children recite some good articles, especially some timeless prose, or fragments of Chinese and foreign famous books, read Chinese books, write carefully, read more newspapers, expand reading, let children observe life more, find writing topics from life, and cultivate children's good study habits, thus making them pay attention.
I don't concentrate enough on my studies this semester. I watch TV for a while, eat for a while, play for a while, do things for a while, and sometimes I can't concentrate. I can't finish my homework in an hour, and I'm careless. Judging from several attempts in mathematics, many of them were wrong in the first question and the second question. It's not that you don't check carefully, it's not that you write one less symbol or one less symbol. In the past, it was just carelessness. The book Family Education reminds me that carelessness is a bad habit in learning, which will not only affect academic performance, but also affect the quality of work when I grow up. It should be a good way to cultivate children's good habits of being careful, earnest and meticulous. Therefore, the book "Family Education" is very good, which makes up for the lack of parents' education for their children.
After reading five books of Family Education, the author discusses the main aspects of children's education, which is very pertinent and points out the road of children's growth and the correct educational methods. Seeing the situation described in the book, I naturally think of my children's study and life, some of which are similar and some are sympathetic.
Pulling out seedlings encourages the development of children. In the whole primary school stage, the development task that children need to solve is to deal with the sense of diligence and inferiority. Proper identification tasks can promote children's sense of diligence and accomplishment. On the other hand, if the task is constantly overweight, the child will eventually be unable to complete the task and feel depressed, either resisting or giving up the effort. How much will children's attention, observation, perception and imagination develop if they are full of children and sit at the table for a long time and lack the opportunity to get along with nature? In particular, I can feel that it's almost nine o'clock in the evening when I finish writing my composition on the occasional composition homework day, and it looks very dull and slow. Sometimes I have less homework and finish it early, so I go outside to play, sometimes I play hide-and-seek, sometimes I climb ladders, and sometimes I do all kinds of difficult moves on moving equipment ... I can vividly see that my eyes are vivid, and I said this is a child. Children love to play, and it is their nature to cultivate their character. In spring, seedlings need sunshine and rain.
Health is the capital of revolution. From the perspective of Chinese medicine, this book allows us to observe the growth and changes of children and at the same time increase our knowledge of Chinese medicine. Heart disease, red heart fever, liver disease, blue face or body pain, spleen disease, yellow face and edema, lung disease, white skin as cold, kidney disease, dull complexion. If the child doesn't like activities, it may be spleen deficiency and weak qi. All these are convenient for us to observe the health of children. My child is in good health. They have grown a lot this year. They are a little thin and don't eat much. So this book reminds us to take time to take our children to see Chinese medicine. In the second grade, when children change their teeth, the front teeth are loose and never fall off. If the teeth are not changed in time, it will affect the development of new teeth. The child refused to go to the hospital for tooth extraction for fear of pain. It seems that they must make up their minds to do the right thing.
Safety is no small matter. It is mentioned in the book: Always explain to children what is dangerous, what can't be done and how to do it. This kind of nagging has to be repeated many times to be effective. Only then did I remember that when crossing the road, one should not run through the red light and the other should not run. Before crossing the road, I should look around to make sure it is safe. There are also children who love to make trouble. When they are making battery cars, they will be back to back with adults. If they fall, they must get rid of bad habits. We have also tested how to deal with security risks, but the proposition 10 in the book is still comprehensive, and some of them have not been encountered yet. It is necessary to test children and enhance their awareness of prevention and coping strategies.
Love is the greatest power in the world. I asked my children when their mother's birthday was last night, but they really couldn't answer. It seems that "no more than 20% of children know their mother's birthday", and the statistical results are relatively accurate. We throw a lot of love to our children endlessly, but we neglect to cultivate their ability to love others. Giving love can improve happiness, and sharing your most precious things with others is the embodiment of love. Confucianism advocates "benevolence, courtesy, wisdom, faithfulness, softness, courtesy and frugality", which has influenced China people from generation to generation. Children trained by China's civilized tradition are no worse than those educated by western values. In order to cultivate children's love, adults should properly show "weakness" and give children the opportunity to care about others. Don't be brave in front of children.
Let children be masters of their own souls. People are born with the desire to be their own masters. Don't force children to learn, let them learn through trial and error, and provide heartfelt learning motivation. Only in this way can they have independent thinking ability and creative ability. Therefore, it is particularly important for children not to accompany them when they study, so that they can finish it independently. If there are difficulties, she will solve them by herself. If she can't solve them, she will ask teachers and parents for help. We really didn't realize that children must not accompany them in their homework in the future. Let children finish their homework independently, and in the process of autonomous learning, cultivate children's self-confident quality and good habit of concentrating on doing homework.