Parents can carefully prepare a good story for their children every night. The plot of the story can be ordinary, it can also be a legend that parents heard when they were young, and it can even be a description of a real experience when they were young, books they read when they were young, and so on, so as to cultivate children to become "story kings" at home.

Before going to bed every night, after telling the story to the child, let the child repeat it himself. Of course, you don't need to change a story every night, but you must tell the story enthusiastically and make the children feel that the story is very interesting. Language, gestures and expressions are very useful tools. In addition, in the process of telling stories, parents should constantly guide their children to think. When parents say that it is spring and rabbits and mice are planting radishes and peanuts, they should ask their children, "Why do mice and rabbits plant peanuts and radishes? You can tell your child at this time, because rabbits like to eat carrots, just like people eat rice every day. In this way, children can learn some knowledge of nature while listening to stories. Let the children repeat the story whenever the parents finish it, which can exercise the children's logical thinking ability and language organization ability. Maybe children will forget something when they repeat the story. It doesn't matter whether they want to talk or not, it's a great progress.

When playing games, you can also guide children to describe the whole game process, or let friends and children play games at home. At this time, children will share their favorite' plush toys' with their friends and try to play different roles with them. After each game, you can ask your child what role he plays. Are you happy? Only in this way can children describe the whole game, which is also of great help to children's language ability. In addition, such a game is conducive to the development of children's imagination, and it will make children and parents use their brains together to think about what kind of plot is more interesting.

Rational use of cartoons: guide children to tell stories boldly. Cartoon is a carrier with rich content and form, and children are often easily attracted by wonderful stories. And there will be many ideas after watching cartoons. At this time, if parents know how to reasonably guide their children to tell stories boldly, or draw some story pictures based on their own memories and imagination, it will be very beneficial to comprehensively improve their children's ability.

Speech is an interesting activity without preparation. When you take your child for a walk or drive somewhere, you can pretend to be a reporter to visit your child and let him talk about something he finds interesting. You can ask some questions: "Why do you want ice cream for breakfast?" Or "What is the best pet in the world and why?" Or "If you could stay up until midnight, what would you do?" Then let the children make some "formal" speeches without much preparation.

Conclusion: Children should use their language skills when communicating with others or expressing their feelings in the future. Having good language skills is very helpful for children's future development. Whether telling stories, playing games or watching cartoons with children, children should be allowed to retell stories boldly, which not only enriches their knowledge, but also continuously improves their language ability.

Second, educate children about "Three Don 'ts"

1, don't bribe children.

It is not a good idea for some parents to promise their children to buy something if they behave well in school.

Such a bribe will trigger the motivation of children to do things from the inside out. He studies not for the good self-concept he has established, but for material rewards. This is not conducive to children to establish a good learning purpose.

2. Don't force your child to promise "Don't dare next time"

When the child made a mistake, the mother said angrily, "well, now you have to promise me that you will never do this again." But after a while, the old problems appeared again. My mother felt cheated and scolded angrily, "Why didn't you behave yourself when you promised your mother?"

Mothers should know that it is meaningless to make children promise. Commitment and intimidation are a pair. He is my brother and will not play a positive role in children. If you meet a sensitive child, forcing him to agree will make him feel sad again. Even if the child is not sensitive, it will make the child duplicity.

3. Don't overprotect and supervise children.

Excessive protection and supervision of children will dampen their self-concept and weaken their ability to cultivate their autonomy. Because when parents supervise their children's behavior too much, they are actually telling their children: "You can't take care of yourself."

Most parents have no confidence in their children's self-care ability. We should take "as long as children can do it themselves, they will never do it all" as our motto. Only in this way can children gradually cultivate their self-care ability.