From my personal point of view, the "liberalization" of the two-child policy is not "open" at all! If I have two children, I will fall into the following fatal difficulties and problems:

1, care for children before they go to primary school.

I remember when my daughter was in kindergarten, I took care of her by myself, and I was as busy as a bee every day! I can sleep to death as soon as my head touches the pillow!

Once my daughter had a high fever at night, I didn't know it at all, or my daughter called me: Dad, I can't burn! Reach out and touch it, it has burned into a fireball!

Once there are other special things at school and at home, I must be "busy and clever", otherwise I can only drag my daughter around all day, no matter whether it is cold or hot, no matter the snow! I really don't know whether to go to work or stay at home with my daughter after tossing a cold. !

Think about the problem of scalp pins and needles, but it's not above! Half a year later, my wife is going to work (both parents are dead), but no one helps to take care of the children! Where is a nursery in the countryside? Where can we find an old man who can help us with our children? It is difficult to find a nanny. Most of our children are at school!

In those days, if I couldn't find it for a while, or the original nanny quit, I could only ask for leave to help my wife take care of the children!

Therefore, the liberalization policy has no open opportunities and environment, and I would rather not be born!

2. Children's education.

Looking forward to a person's success is a "project" that every parent would rather give up life!

When two children need their parents' company and patient education, one child is in a "key" high school unless there is a "doppelganger" operation! Otherwise, losing two children will be a lifetime thing! I don't want children to be famous brands, but at least I can't "artificially" cause "losses"!

3. Children's college education.

In the college years of two children, the children are faced with major choices in life and more important growth stages. As parents, we may be in poor health, how can we have enough energy to care for and educate them!

There is also the high cost of college education, which is even more troublesome! If children are admitted to some universities, where do those high fees come from! And when we need to pay these expenses, it may also be when children need to get married and parents need to provide some financial help! Parents can't even "protect themselves" at this time, let alone have two children!

In addition, judging from the personal problems of people who have given birth or are preparing to give birth to two children, more people have to face the following problems:

1, health and rest of the child before birth.

The liberalization of the two-child policy has not solved the health and rest problems of pregnant mothers! Can a quality child produce this? !

From preparation for pregnancy to pregnancy, many parents are busy with work, family and children's education. Rest and nutrition are often ignored or have to give up attention!

2. Maternity leave.

Now the maternity leave is only "almost six months", and then I have to go to work. So if there are no grandparents, where should the children go? !

Every day after work, it may be difficult for the whole family to eat in time!

A friend joked that if you give me hundreds of thousands, will I have two children? I said, give me or my wife at least 4 years maternity leave, and I will give birth! I'm afraid I can't find a nanny if I have money. Should I sew a bag on my stomach like a kangaroo and take the child away? ! ! !

3. Late education costs, especially universities.

The current wage level varies greatly across the country! For example, our salary level here is about 3500! Then, a child's growth and education costs are not high, and he has not entered an "aristocratic school". By the time the second child needs to go to college, his parents have retired. According to the current salary system, our salary level may drop to a certain extent, so can our salary afford the "high" college expenses of teaching children?

Therefore, the liberalization of the second child policy is only a trend, and there is no open, scientific and continuous environment for raising, raising and educating children! It is impossible to guarantee that both children have an excellent education and growth process!

In a word (as my friend joked): I'd rather have a cat!

Now, the education and training of a daughter has troubled me!

If I am old and have no partner, I will have a cat! If I am old and bored, I'd better get a cat!