There is a way of education called stocking education. The so-called stocking education means that parents do not control and restrict their children, so that children can grow up in an independent and relaxed environment and get in touch with all kinds of novelty. This kind of education is in sharp contrast with those authoritarian education, which can better cultivate children's willpower and independent spirit.
Moderate stocking will be of great benefit to children, but parents need to know that stocking is not equal to indulgence, and indulgence is equivalent to pushing children to the edge of a cliff step by step.
Neighborhood couples educate their children relatively democratically. Husband and wife will not interfere excessively in their own affairs, and often let the children make their own decisions. Children also have their own personality characteristics and strong self-management ability. However, the problem is gradually emerging, and the free-range education makes the couple gradually ignore the timely education of their children and indulge more.
After the children went to junior high school, they got into bad habits, fighting became a common occurrence and became gangsters. The husband and wife regretted it, but there is no regret medicine in the world, and they can only grieve alone. Parents need to know a truth: raising children does not mean conniving at them.
1. The child is used to being spoiled.
When children have minor problems, if parents indulge or cover up their children instead of timely education, their personality will become arrogant and self-centered. There is no doubt that this character is annoying. After entering the society, they will have personality problems sooner or later.
The child has no sense of responsibility.
Pampering the parents of children will make them lose their sense of responsibility. This lack of responsibility will not only be reflected in individuals, but also in the process of interacting with others. When they encounter things that should be their responsibility, they will blindly escape and retreat, and like to hide behind their parents and let them clean up the mess for them.
3. Children have no plans to do things.
People who do things without a plan fly around like headless flies. Parental indulgence is the first step to turn a child into a headless fly. Children don't plan and prepare in advance, just go step by step. As the saying goes, opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared. Doing things without a plan will only make children miss many opportunities for development.
1. Harmonious parent-child relationship
Distance produces beauty. Sometimes, the sense of distance between children and parents will make the parent-child relationship more harmonious. Moderate stocking means that parents and children keep a certain distance. Parents need to give their children independent space to explore this wonderful world by themselves, which is not only conducive to the harmony of parent-child relationship, but also helps to cultivate their independent ability.
2. Children grow up better
Moderate stocking is to let children explore the unknown, accumulate experience, and slowly explore a set of their own things, which can help children grow better. After all, what you get from your own practice is far better than what others instill in you.
3. Children have better personalities.
Moderate stocking is also a process of tempering children's character. Without the protection of parents, they will better perceive the world's warmth and coldness, understand the world, make their children's character better, and know how to be grateful to parents and others.
In addition, children can develop their own specialties.
Although there are no absolutely perfect people in the world, it is undeniable that everyone will have their own unique highlights. Parents will give their children more opportunities to show their talents, and they will dare to show their specialties.
Third, how to properly purchase goods?
1. Pay attention to appropriate methods and strategies.
We should pay attention to methods and strategies when stocking children, and we should not use them indiscriminately. For example, children like to go to internet cafes, and parents should not blindly criticize blame-oriented education. Instead, we can use heuristic education of reasoning to tell children what harm it may be to go to Internet cafes, so that children can give up the idea of going to Internet cafes on their own initiative. The correct way is the correct stocking.
2. Thinking stocking, cultivate children's growth thinking.
Raising children is to cultivate children's growth thinking, self-growth and self-learning awareness and ability.
3. We should not give up the principle while preparing the goods.
As the old saying goes, Ding is Mao, Mao is Mao. In many things, we must be principled and unambiguous. Parents should pay attention to the principle of not abandoning their children when raising them. If they give up their principles, raising will become indulgence. Therefore, in order not to let children lose themselves, we should give consideration to principles when stocking.
Raising children will benefit children a lot, but parents should pay attention not to regard indulgence as raising children, but to clarify the boundary between them and keep the key to the door of depravity for children.
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