Tell me my specific opinion.
This phenomenon is quite common in life, especially among our elders. In my impression, most family members are like this, giving the best to others and keeping the worst for themselves.
In that era of lack of materials, family members often let go of a piece of meat and a piece of fruit, which made them blush and no one wanted to eat it. In the end, either the family is average and everyone has a bite, or they are eaten by children who are not sensible.
Unfortunately, this phenomenon is becoming less and less common now. Relatively speaking, we young people are a little more selfish than our elders.
This seemingly trivial behavior actually reflects a person's good qualities and is also an important part of our traditional Chinese virtues. For example, the story of Kong Rong spreading pears widely.
This is a selfless quality. If you have such people around you, you must respect and cherish them.
For our younger generation, we should strengthen the education of this quality, inherit the excellent culture and be as selfless as possible.
Everything has a degree, beyond which things will develop in a bad direction.
Although we advocate being kind to others, sometimes we should be kind to ourselves.
It is said that my mother had no nutrition when she was pregnant. Later, someone gave us a chicken, and my mother couldn't bear to eat it, so she had to share it with everyone. Because of malnutrition, our brothers were all weak when they were born, and my mother didn't have enough milk herself.
From this example, we can see that there should be a balance between being good to others and being good to yourself. Selfishness is no good, nor is caring for others and neglecting yourself.
In short, we should respect such people and carry forward this quality, but we should also pay attention to being kind to others and consider ourselves properly.