Parents are their children's first teachers, and their words and deeds will have an impact on their children. The role of parents' example power on children 1. Parents' role models are the basis of children's cognition. Children observe their parents' actions and imprint them on their minds like cameras. At this time, the child has no ability to evaluate right or wrong, and it is impossible to judge whether this impression is good or bad. They will only imitate curiously. 2. Establish children's life values. If parents can't set a good example for their children, they can't give them better cognitive ability and ability to distinguish right from wrong. Misleading children's words and deeds will also affect the formation of their life values. Only when parents have good life values can they guide their children to establish correct life values. I also suggest that you go to the beautiful family in Gaotu to learn family education methods, which are very scientific and professional. I have been there before, and I always feel that my educational methods are lacking. Studying in Gaodao Beautiful Family Class has made me understand the way of education and really benefited a lot! 3. Parents should be the main body of family study. "Setting an example" is an eternal proposition of traditional education in China for thousands of years. Everything parents say and do is actually a demonstration. As the saying goes, like father, like son. Parents should not only take the lead in learning and become role models for their children, but also study with their children and learn from each other. How to set an example for children in the family First of all, while setting rules for children, the whole family should abide by them together. For example, if you want your child to develop a good habit of paying attention to diet, don't watch TV or watch the mobile phone source when the whole family is eating. The boundaries of the rules we make should be clear, and we should not waver with parents' emotions. All rules need to be flexible when they are implemented, not too rigid. For example, it is not a big deal to stipulate that children go to bed at 9 pm and postpone it for a few minutes. Unclear and rigid rules are easy to fail, and may also make children have a strong rebellious mentality. Secondly, we must control our emotions, don't talk to children when emotions break out, and don't always be impatient and irritate children. Doing so is easy to make children timid, so that children are timid, and mothers should slow down. To adapt to the rhythm of children, children, the development of various physical functions is still immature, the coordination of the body is relatively poor, and everything will be very hard. At this time, parents must not be impatient and wait patiently for their children.