1. Parents should get out of the misunderstanding of family education.
First of all, parents should make it clear that it is our obligation and responsibility to educate their children, family education is something we should work hard to do all our lives, and kindergarten education is a social collective environmental education, which is temporary. You should also know that 3-6 years old is a critical period of life development, and early childhood education may have a lifelong impact on children. A considerable number of parents have this idea, which makes them lose this precious educational opportunity. They regard their children's time in kindergarten as their free time, and mistakenly think that most of their education is given to kindergartens, especially residential parks, and their life and education depend entirely on kindergartens. They believe that kindergartens should be responsible for sending children to kindergartens regardless of their physical and mental development or the cultivation of behavioral habits, and rarely or never ask children about their behavior in the park. When a child finds a problem that needs to be solved, he will say, "Teacher, you really need to take care of him ..." and put all the responsibility for children's education on the kindergarten.
Parents, you should know: parents are children's first teachers, and family education is the cradle of children's growth; Parents' words and deeds play an important role in children's growth, and you are the executor of the whole family education.
Secondly, as a parent, you should also clearly and scientifically grasp the scale of educating children, pay attention to learning excellent family education experience in children's education, and be strict and loving.
The knowledge of family education lies in that, as a parent, you should not condescend, but kneel down to interpret the children's world with a childlike heart, understand their behaviors and things, implement your education with respect and equality, and grasp the depth and scale is very important. In the attitude towards children's education, we should not be too strict and demanding, and reprimand children for their mistakes; Nor can we be obedient to children's bad behaviors and unreasonable demands, unprincipled accommodation and excessive indulgence will make children form bad behaviors and habits. As Rousseau, a French educator, said, "Some people are too strict, while others are too accommodating. Both situations should be avoided. "
Third, with the development of the times, parents pay more attention to their children's knowledge education, while neglecting their children's personality and behavior development education. We especially remind parents to establish a correct concept of education, and never pay attention to knowledge but neglect the cultivation and education of children's character and behavior development.
Description of wrong ideas and behaviors: Some parents only care about how much knowledge their children have learned, but never ask their children's behaviors, and even reflect their own shortcomings to the teachers, never delve into the reasons, and only like the teachers to report "happiness" instead of "worries". Over time, children have formed bad behavior habits.
Two. Actively cooperate with the implementation of education.
Parents should actively cooperate with kindergartens, unify their goals and ideas, and jointly complete the education of young children. First of all, parents should closely and actively cooperate with the class teacher to implement the education plan, correctly request and teach their children, create conditions to promote family education and kindergarten education, and consolidate educational achievements. For example, the requirements for children's life and study should be consistent with those at home, give children clear living standards and cultivate their good habits.
You should also pay attention to keep in touch with the kindergarten, take the initiative to contact the teachers in the teaching class, communicate more and listen to the teachers' guidance. You should not only know the children's situation in the garden, but also truthfully reflect the children's performance at home to the teacher, coordinate with each other, and praise or correct the children's advantages and disadvantages in time.
3. Actively participate in parents' activities in kindergartens and attach importance to family ties.
Parents actively participate in all kinds of parents' open days held by kindergartens, and pay attention to contact the class teacher in time, which can not only understand the children's behavior and development in all aspects, but also meet their psychological needs.
Parents must also arm themselves with educational theory knowledge, actively participate in parent schools and preschool education forums organized by kindergartens, learn from the educational experience of excellent parents and improve their educational level, so as to give full play to the effectiveness of family education.
As long as your parents adhere to the principle of paying equal attention to family and kindergarten education, closely cooperate with kindergarten education and form a joint educational force in the same direction with kindergarten, they will certainly get twice the result with half the effort in the work of scientifically cultivating children's growth.