Sharing the experience of family education is actually a science, which requires us to constantly sum up our experience in practice and improve our education level. I have just listened to Professor Chen's report, and I feel that I have gained a lot. The teachers here are also experts in education. Your educational theory and practice are much richer and more vivid than mine. I know that I am also a pupil in children's education, but I would like to talk about my feelings about children's education in front of experts, hoping to get everyone's criticism and correction.
First, create a warm environment.
(1) Reach an educational consensus. Although her father and I are very busy at work, we both attach great importance to education. We bought or borrowed books about education together and exchanged ideas about education together. When there are differences in education, you can sit down and talk frankly until a consensus is reached, so that you can have a more consistent view of your child's words and deeds and have similar solutions to her shortcomings, instead of telling her this today and telling her tomorrow, leaving her at a loss.
(2) Create a learning atmosphere. It is a truth that knowledge changes fate. It's never too old to learn. It's also my motto. In my home, we can often see such a scene: parents and children are reading and studying under the lamp. When my daughter was very young, she used to hold a book when she saw us studying. When she was young, she pestered me to read to her. Later, I encouraged her to read by herself. Slowly, her reading habits formed and she knew more and more words. Because I often let her read some prose poems, she sometimes writes some short poems, which are full of childlike interest. Her father and I will carefully help her collect, and sometimes we will calm down and review her small articles with her, which is a pleasure for both of us. Now every day after lunch, she will sit there quietly and read books that interest her.
Second, cultivate good habits.
There is a proverb: behavior cultivates habits, habits form character, and character determines fate. However, it is impossible to cultivate children's habits through simple criticism or reprimand. We must start with children's behavior and guide them to put their determination and slogans into action.
(1) Encourage less talk and more action. Often educate children to spend time daydreaming and talking about practical things, and tell her that one action is worth more than a dozen plans, and the value of one action is better than a hundred slogans and a thousand resolutions.
(2) Pay attention to step by step. For example, to cultivate children's habit of memorizing English words, you can only ask for memorizing 2~3 words at first, and then gradually increase the amount after the habit is formed. My daughter began to learn piano when she was four years old. I stayed with her for the first two years, but her work became more and more busy and she often couldn't stay with her, so she slowly relaxed her study. I think we must train her to learn the piano independently, otherwise she is likely to give up halfway. I communicated with her and the piano teacher the idea of reading music and practicing piano independently. At first, it was conceivable that the quality of the resumption of classes was very poor, either the rhythm was wrong or the music was wrong, but I didn't panic. She is willing to practice the piano by herself, which is a great progress. My piano teacher and I constantly encouraged her to consciously slow down the teaching speed and let her gradually adapt to her piano. After half a year, we raised the speed of education to the original level. Since then, she has made great progress. When she is upset, she will play the piano to relax and relieve her mood. I occasionally stand beside her and listen to her practice, but I have listened to the piano with appreciation, so don't worry about not having time to practice. Now I began to mobilize her to keep a diary. I don't ask her to write every day, but tell her to write down what she is interested in every day, no matter how long. She insists on this very much.
Third, be diligent in communication and encourage more.
(1) communicate on an equal footing. No parents don't love their children, and no children will refuse their parents' broad-minded and passionate love. When my daughter is in a big kindergarten class and is a little sensible, I will tell her: You and your mother are equal, I won't scold you, let alone hit you, but you must tell your mother everything you are happy or wronged, which means that your mother will grow up with you again, and I will be very happy! ? Indeed, I enjoyed talking to her. I will tell her what I think of things in a way that she can understand as much as possible. All-round communication with her has brought our feelings closer, and she is also very willing to listen to my comments and our opinions.
(2) Sincere encouragement. I am convinced that if you give your child more appreciation, be good at discovering her unique strengths and advantages, watch her make a little progress, encourage her, guide her patiently, and support her with words and practical actions, your child will develop her own advantages. Especially when children encounter difficulties, don't simply scold or dig, but patiently enlighten and actively provide solutions to problems.
From a certain point of view, family education plays a decisive role in the cultivation of children's good morality and habits. Now I'll write some family education experiences that I think are beneficial for your reference.
1, children's academic performance can't always be the best. When the exam results are not ideal, help him analyze the reasons and find some problems he has to avoid making mistakes again. Give him proper praise, do some analysis, find out the gap when he is good, and let him set better and higher goals.
2. Cultivate children's good study habits. We will give children some appropriate reminders when they have problems in completing their homework (of course, they must be within their power). We will ask him to check his homework carefully, and then we will check it.
3. It is suggested not to organize card-playing activities and parties at home, to give children a good learning environment, and to talk with them often and communicate their feelings.
If you speak in front of children, you will get a prize, and if you are punished, you will be punished. You play with him.
In real life, we should always pay attention to our own image, and we can't just care about ourselves and ignore the dignity of our children. Let children know that if they want to be respected by others, they must respect others first, so that they can be calm and polite first.
6, win the trust of children, take the initiative to talk to children, make friends with children, and always understand their psychological thoughts and ideas. Cancel the intergenerational differences with children, and equality means equality.
7. Don't be a bystander when things happen, and intervene when children encounter difficulties, but don't draw any conclusions, don't tell children what to do, but discuss with them and try to let them solve difficulties independently.
8. Correct the child's bad habits in time. In the process of correction, we should have a clear attitude, love strict combination, seek truth from facts, what is right is right, what is wrong is wrong, and never be vague.
9. Students often watch TV, which accounts for a large proportion. Therefore, children should be instructed to watch TV programs selectively, such as news reports, animal world, quiz, etc., so as to broaden their horizons, increase their knowledge and form good behavior habits.
10, consciously let children be their own good helpers. As a junior high school student, he is fully capable, and it is necessary to help his family do more things within his power, and form a good habit of loving labor from an early age.
1 1, the formation of quality is a long process. Only by starting from small things and starting from himself can his young mind understand what is good, what is bad, what is beautiful and what is ugly.
Children like praise. Correct use of praise and criticism, often give children appropriate incentives, mobilize their enthusiasm for work and study, and cultivate positive and healthy psychology.
13. Playing is a child's nature, and fun is not a bad thing. You can get a lot of things that are not in books when you play, but you must master them to a certain extent. Encourage him to go outdoors and do some sports with his classmates. First, you can exercise and enhance your physical fitness; Secondly, you can communicate with others more and improve your communication skills.
Family education experience summary experience sharing 3 Every child is in the hearts of parents, baby. We all look forward to their safe, healthy and happy growth. I have been studying, exploring and reflecting on children's education, hoping to grow, temper and mature with children. Parents are children's first teachers, and families are children's first schools. Parents' manners, moral quality and family harmony are very important for children.
First, moral education.
Personal character is the basis of all moral behaviors. Educating children to talk about morality should start from themselves and around them, so that they can respect their elders, love others and not bully the weak. Children should appreciate what they do right and criticize what they do wrong, so that she can establish a correct concept of judging things right and wrong. Kindness, courtesy, civilization, right and wrong, and empathy should be mastered from an early age.
Second, independence, autonomy, cultivate children's ability.
Children can't live under the wings of their parents all their lives. If parents want to be better than the next generation, they should let their children be their own masters. As parents, we should respect children's choices, give them the right to choose, and don't judge children by their own choices.
Third, develop good living habits, behavior habits and study habits.
Children are the embodiment of parents, and parents are their role models. Therefore, what we ask our children to do must be done by themselves first. Example is more important than words. Moreover, habits can't be formed overnight. We should help children persevere, persevere and gradually form habits. Tell her what's important and what's not. For doctors, time is life; For businessmen, time is money; For you, time is knowledge and growth. If you make good use of your time, you may thrive, but if you waste your time, you may be weak and dry. But work and rest are combined. Study hard when you should study, and have fun when you should play. The ultimate goal of education is not to score, but to enable children to create a happy life and enjoy it.
Fourth, praise and encourage more to cultivate children's self-confidence.
There is a famous educational saying: Let every child walk with his head held high. ? A child's self-confidence stems from his parents' love for her. Not stingy? I love you? Don't be ashamed to express these three words. If you love your children, your partner, your parents, you should say it. Not only that, we should fully trust her, respect her and tap her strengths. Less scolding, more tolerance, but no connivance; Less comparison, more encouragement; Less arrangement, more guidance; Less discouraged and more grateful. Maybe children will face their life with a smile.
Verb (abbreviation of verb) strengthens safety awareness education
There are hidden dangers everywhere in modern society, so we should cultivate children's own safety awareness during their growth. Only the happiness of children can bring happiness to families. Children should be taught to know all kinds of safety signs, traffic signs, food signs and other signs. I am also very grateful to the kindergarten for cultivating children's safety awareness in an appropriate way at an appropriate time, and teaching them some ways to seek safety and survival in dangerous times according to different growth stages and different environments.