First of all, parents need to establish channels of trust and communication with their children, so that children can understand that they can ask their parents for help and support at any time. Parents should also actively listen to their children's voices and understand their confusion and troubles.
Observe children's emotions and behaviors.
Secondly, parents need to pay attention to their children's emotions and behaviors. If they find that the child has obvious emotional changes or abnormal behaviors, such as depression, skipping school, poor grades, etc. Parents need to communicate with their children in time, ask what happened and give them support and help.
Encourage children to seek help from school or others.
If children don't want to tell their parents, they can be encouraged to seek help from school teachers or class teachers, so that the school can get involved in dealing with this problem. At the same time, children can also be encouraged to seek help from their trusted friends or relatives, so that children no longer feel lonely and helpless.
Teach children how to deal with bullying.
Finally, parents need to educate their children how to deal with bullying, such as reminding them to stay calm, avoid fighting back and ask for help. To help them enhance their self-protection awareness and self-confidence.
In short, if children don't tell their parents about bullying, parents need to understand their mentality, establish trust and communication channels, pay attention to their emotions and behaviors, encourage children to seek help from school or others, and educate them how to deal with bullying. Through these methods, parents can help their children solve the problem of bullying and let their children grow up happily and safely in school.