1, the influence of teenagers' own personality: teenagers excessively pursue high marks, want to be perfect in everything, or are timid and not good at communication, which affects communication with parents and teachers, can't correctly treat other people's different views, and care about their own or others' mistakes, which leads to more serious psychological problems.
2. Teenagers are under too much pressure to learn: because adolescent children are immature in physical and mental development, parents and schools are under too much pressure, so parents and children can't communicate effectively, so they will put all difficulties on their own psychology, which will naturally form an introverted personality, and the deviation of attention will lead to weariness of learning.
3. The influence of adolescent sexual psychological conflict: According to the investigation and study, some teenagers' weariness of learning is related to their children's first puberty. When girls have menarche and boys have their first spermatorrhea, their alertness is enhanced due to the role of neuroendocrine. Fear of going to school is just a way for them to divert their attention, which is a potential sexual psychological pressure.
4. Emotional problems in adolescence are more prominent. Depression occurs: it is the first peak of depression from childhood to adulthood. Many children will have negative or even suicidal thoughts. Teenagers are full of pessimism and despair about their personal future and future. When this psychological contradiction reaches the extreme, they will commit suicide because of depression, and weariness of learning is not a problem.
Weariness should be mainly concentrated in junior high school. Children of this age are the most concentrated places in the rebellious period, and they are most likely to feel disgusted with learning.
At this time, parents' education is particularly important. First of all, parents are the best teachers for children. Parents should communicate with their children, understand their inner feelings, actively correct their own shortcomings, and don't blame them blindly. Blaming will only aggravate the estrangement and make the relationship more tense.
We should also actively communicate with teachers and care about children's study and life together. Children's development is sustainable. Don't care too much about temporary achievements. I learned to understand and tolerate children. Let him know your requirements and hopes for him.
Being tired of learning is a child's psychological problem. If it is not solved psychologically, it is difficult to achieve good results. But in the end, there are different opinions on how to better alleviate this situation of children, and every parent will have his own solution. I don't know what effect I can get with a few small suggestions.
Second, be kind, let the children open their hearts and tell you the problem.
Third, the solution should not be too rude, and it is easy to use violence and scolding, which will make children have rebellious psychology and aggravate their weariness of learning.
Fourth, we should communicate with teachers, understand the children's trends in all aspects, and realize the interaction between home and school.
Fifth, find children's interest points, as a breakthrough, and go deep into children's perception of thoughts and knowledge, which can not only cultivate children's hobbies, but also ease their knots and find their happiness.
Sixth, combine criticism with encouragement, so that children can not only know their own shortcomings, but also build confidence.
Seven, the family should also be harmonious and create a good atmosphere for children.
Generally speaking, building confidence is the most important thing. Most students who are tired of learning have poor grades, which is related to their lack of self-confidence. Most of the means and methods are basically for this purpose.
Being tired of learning is not only a problem for teenagers, but also a problem for many people. I'm preparing for my professional qualification certificate, and I'm bored when I study. I think everything is more fun than studying! But because we want to live, we want to live better! So I watch chicken soup every day, plan my study time every day, and force myself to study every day. I can persist because I have a clear goal. Therefore, to solve the problem of teenagers' weariness of learning, we must first give them clear goals, let them know what learning can bring them and change them! Secondly, we should shorten the time of learning feedback. Many students spend about three years learning feedback. After junior high school entrance examination and senior high school entrance examination, phased encouragement and reward can shorten their learning feedback time and increase their learning happiness and interest!
The heated discussion and unresolved worries about school weariness have led many parents to come to the psychological counseling center to find a good solution for "how to deal with teenagers' school weariness" As a psychological teacher, Zhengzhou Hanfei Education School provides many methods for parents to consult, and the result is the same sentence: "I am consulting for teenagers who are tired of learning, not for myself." I said, "Yes, but have you ever reflected on any mistakes in your education?" This is the blind spot of current education. Children are tired of learning because their parents don't know that there is something wrong with their education methods.