2. Be good at listening and be friends. We should listen to children's inner voices enthusiastically, be their best friends and always pay attention to their facial expressions, because what makes children unhappy has entered their inner world. Children's world is the simplest and most beautiful, and they sometimes use disobedience to get their parents' attention. Parents must be qualified, and children will be more sensible!
3, empathy to find problems. Parents should learn to put themselves in others' shoes when educating their children. They also came from the rebellious period of youth. In the face of the inexplicable behavior of children, don't rush to blame them, but understand what happened during the period before educating them. Sometimes children's rebellion is another way of writing children's growth.
4. Respect children and encourage them. Parents who do not know how to respect their children are not good parents. Parents who always stare at their children's weaknesses are not good parents either. Don't compare your child's shortcomings with other children's strengths, which will easily hurt your child's self-esteem. Evaluate children comprehensively and try to tap their bright spots. Encourage more and reduce children's resistance to their parents. Only when parents seriously put forward their hopes and let their children see their potential and future will their children make faster progress.
5, patiently guide more companionship. Communicate more, tolerate more, understand less, spoil less, reward and punishment are clear, don't add any pressure to children, know more about what their inner world needs, and more importantly, spend more time with them. Some parents push their children to the elderly on both sides for work, and see them once every ten and a half months. The child has a sense of loss. What they want most is to live with their parents and get.
6, care and take care of less criticism. No matter how many mistakes your child has made, you should still give him care and love. Never give up. Once the child thinks that you have given up on him, he will break the jar and bear a grudge against you. I guess I'll be embarrassed for the rest of my life.
7. Never break the bottom line. It is natural for parents to love their children, so in the process of managing their children, they often shrink back. Who knows that children will seize the opportunity, push their luck, and eventually become lawless and lawless. In order to avoid this situation, parents must be firm and keep the bottom line.