All education focuses on cultivating children's autonomy and cultivating a child who can think independently and has good thinking ability and self-discipline ability. "Only education that can inspire students to educate themselves is the real education. -Suhomlinski "

Suhomlinski, an educator in the former Soviet Union, said: "The improvement of education and the deepening of its sociality do not mean the weakening of the role of the family, but the strengthening of the role of the family. If the whole society does not have a high level of educational literacy, the first is the family, then no matter how hard teachers work, they will not receive satisfactory results. " Therefore, although school education has a far-reaching impact on students, school education cannot solve all the problems in a person's growth. Never pin all your hopes on school. All students' problems at school will be reflected in their families.

The root of all the difficulties in the complicated education process of schools can also be traced back to the family. The all-round development of people depends on what kind of people mothers and fathers are in front of their children, and on how children understand interpersonal relationships and social environment from their parents' examples.

It is better to settle for the second best and be lenient, and so is education. Although there is a clear purpose, but did not master the way to achieve the desire, or even put the cart before the horse, the result may be counterproductive. On the way to educating children, we will encounter many problems, such as not going to a good school, falling behind for a while, and children being inferior to others at a certain stage ... These are only temporary and may make people feel anxious for a while, but in a broader life, they are not big problems or even the most critical factors. As parents, we should calm down and face our children and know what they really need.

The real function of education is to improve oneself, not only for children, but also for parents. In the process of raising the next generation, parents need to constantly pay and change themselves, accompany their children to grow up slowly, and finally complete their second growth. Compared with worrying about the unknown future, trying to be your child's first tutor is actually the best education for your child-this is the part that you can completely control and the most reliable and effective way.

The fundamental purpose of family education is to make the next generation live more dignified and valuable than us through the process of educating children! No matter whether we are here or not in the future, they can live a good and happy life!

The above views are for reference only, thank you!

I think the fundamental purpose of family education is to teach children to learn to survive and realize their own values.

Parents teach their children to learn to survive, just as parents of other animals in the animal kingdom teach their cubs to learn to survive: this is how to survive in the current fierce competition environment. However, people and animals have similarities and differences. The differences are as follows: human family education not only educates children to learn to survive, but also strives to realize their own values; The animal kingdom only has the problem of how to survive, but has not realized its own value, which is the fundamental difference between human beings and the animal kingdom.

Teaching children to learn to survive is a big proposition, and there are several sub-propositions below.

First, teach children how to survive.

From birth to adulthood, how to survive in the fierce competition environment is the first and most important problem. In order to survive, parents must let their children learn the following sub-propositions:

1, learn to be a man

Only by learning to be a man can your words and deeds conform to the current moral standards, and you can live, work and study in an environment that is beneficial to you. On the contrary, it will hit a wall everywhere and be criticized.

2. Learn to get along with others

People are social people, and it is common for people to deal with and negotiate with each other, so it is also important to learn to live in harmony with others.

3. Learn to think independently and solve problems independently.

4. Develop good habits.

5. Cultivate a strong interest in learning.

6, teach common sense of life, learn sports and so on.

Second, the fundamental purpose of family education is to teach children to learn to survive and strive to realize their own values.

Any family education means that parents are utilitarian when educating their children, that is, they want to make their children better: in primary school, they want their children to study well and have strong organizational skills; In middle school, I hope my children can be admitted to famous universities and make greater contributions to family, country and society after graduation.

Then, under the great proposition of striving to realize its own value, there are the following subheadings:

1. Parents cultivate their children's strong interests and hobbies, paving the way for realizing their own values.

Parents let their children form good habits and serve their own values.

3. Parents cultivate their children's spirit of independent thinking and hard study in order to achieve advanced goals, that is, to serve their own values.

Parents let their children accumulate knowledge and master learning methods, which also paves the way for realizing their own values.

Therefore, the fundamental purpose of family education is to teach children to learn to survive and realize the value of life.

The fundamental purpose of family education is to grow up.

Growth may be a rotten topic, if chicken soup can't be chicken soup. However, family education is really growth, not only the growth of children, but also the growth of parents.

The first is the growth of parents. Are we ready to change our roles from children to parents? Are we ready to lead by example? How to take care of children at every stage, how to educate children, and what kind of world outlook, outlook on life and values should be established for children? How to establish three views for children? These are all aspects that we have to learn and grow, and in this process, we will inevitably bring ourselves growth.

Secondly, it is the growth of children. Children should grow physically and mentally, cultivate life skills, cultivate learning ability and so on. The growth of a child is the most obvious thing, but it is precisely because it is so obvious that it is not taken seriously. Some families are still crooked, and parents still think their baby is a good baby.

Finally, the growth of the whole society, different social backgrounds need different family education, and in turn, family education is also promoting a more harmonious and beautiful social environment.

The purpose is to cultivate a child who can live independently after leaving home.

Every family has different educational goals.

In ancient Sparta, every baby was born to prepare soldiers. If he was weak, he was thrown into the wild to die.

In ancient China, when a daughter was born, the goal of education was to learn how to serve men and how to teach children.

If it is the son of a farmer, the goal of education is to cultivate land.

If it is the son of a butcher, the goal of education is to learn to kill pigs.

From the national point of view, the goal of education is to cultivate talents to promote social development.

The answer is not unique.

To put it bluntly, the key is what parents want to do, which is the most important thing.

If you have a lot of regrets and unwillingness about your destiny, and you don't have the ability and confidence to realize it, it is easy to turn educational goals into tools for children to realize their ideals.

If one's personality is perfect, it's easy to agree with the idea of humanism-to make a child the person he wants to be most, which is also the highest state of education.

Hello, I'm glad to answer questions. A good education for children is not only the top priority for every family and every parent, but also related to the future of the Chinese nation. "Chen Liaona said that what kind of influence family, school, society and environment have on children, what kind of people children will become. Some experts have concluded that in a complete education, family education should account for 50%, school education for 20%, social education for 20% and self-education for 10%. It can be seen that family education is particularly important. John Locke's book Random Talk on Education is a classic model of family education, which well expounds the spiritual essence and connotation of education: healthy body, sound personality and perfect survival skills.

Generally speaking, "morality, intelligence, physical fitness, beauty and labor" five good students put moral character first. In fact, the first element of educating children is to have a healthy body, as John Locke emphasized: "A sound mind must reside in a healthy body." If one thing is not perfect physically or mentally, it is futile to get all kinds of other things. People with unclear minds can't find the right way to do things, and weak people can't make progress even if they have the right way. If you want to have your own career and get happiness, you must first have a healthy body; If you want to succeed and get ahead, you must have a healthy body and be able to endure hard work.

The average healthy life expectancy of China people is far less than that of Japan, which has sounded the alarm for Chinese people's health education. Family health education is mainly reflected in the management of daily life: first, avoid pampering, such as not wearing too many clothes for children; Second, pay attention to the exercise of the feet, get used to cold water, and contact frequently; Third, attach importance to swimming and outdoor sports; Fourth, dress loosely and naturally, and don't be bound by the child's body shape; Fifth, the diet is light and simple; Sixth, choose a hard bed to exercise the child's physique and let the child pay attention to the quality of sleep; Seventh, develop the good habit of defecation on time; Eighth, drug abuse is prohibited. From the above aspects, it is not difficult to see that John Locke's educational method is nip in the bud.

Parents should not spoil their children.

There is no doubt that education begins at home. The purpose of family health education is nothing more than keeping a strong and energetic body so that it can carry out spiritual orders. Physical strength mainly lies in being able to bear hardships and stand hard work, and mental strength also lies in being able to bear hardships and stand hard work. Parents can't spoil their children. Spoiled children must learn to beat and curse, and they must cry to get what they want, and they must do whatever they want. It is conceivable that the bad temper formed in childhood is difficult to correct, which requires parents to educate their children to overcome their desires with reason. Of course, be gentle with children, and gentleness does not mean doting. The younger a child is, the less he can be willful and rational, and the more he needs to be bound by the absolute power of the disciplinarian. This also requires that the disciplinarian must be a cautious and wise person.

A common problem in educating children is that parents don't know how to deal with their crying. First of all, it is an unacceptable shortcoming for children to cry at will. There are two problems in crying: one is unyielding, domineering, complaining and complaining; The other is pain or sadness. For the former, parents should use severe methods (such as sticks) to stop it; For the latter, it is necessary to use a more moderate method to persuade. At first glance, this practice seems incomprehensible. John Locke explained very clearly that if a child is young and stubborn, he should be strictly disciplined. At this time, he might as well kill him with a stick; Crying caused by pain or sadness is also intolerable, because it will only make people feel compassionate, and compassion will make children psychologically fragile.

Nowadays, many parents are close to their children when they are young, but when they grow up, they will show their emotions, which is completely wrong. Many children will think like this: since you can't support me for life, why don't you let me make a living as soon as possible?

Family education in today's society can be roughly divided into three phenomena: doting family, disciplining family and democratic family. There is no doubt that the parent-child relationship in democratic families is more harmonious. When children are young, they regard their parents as monarchs and absolute rulers, and fear their parents. When they grow up, they regard their parents as the most reliable and only unreserved friends and love them. This is a successful and normal parent-child relationship.

Education should grasp the "degree"

Children are strictly disciplined at an early age. When this subject has made certain achievements, it should be relaxed and changed to a more moderate subject. Chen Liaona agrees with John Locke's proposition: strict, but not strict. We must grasp the "degree" of strict requirements for children. Too strict discipline and improper methods make children suffer too many blows and lose their vitality and diligence. Some experts once concluded that only by giving children a happy childhood can they have a happy old age. In the process of educating children, we should not use sticks at will, nor abuse small encouragement, but treat them rationally. Children are extremely sensitive to praise and praise, so we should educate them to cherish their reputation and be brave after knowing shame. As the saying goes, "People can do whatever they want without being ashamed". Cultivate children's sense of shame, let them take care of their "face", and let them know that if a person behaves well, he will be praised and loved by others, and naturally he will get other beautiful things.

Good virtue and education are the foundation of being a man. Chen Liaona said that without virtue, a person has no place in the world, let alone progress and achievements. Parents should set an example for their children in moral education. What parents should do is to give their children the most complete love, send their children to the most suitable school and give them the best demonstration. Education is as important as virtue. Without education, no matter what virtue will change. A popular person, his movements should be not only powerful, but also elegant. Elegance is reflected in the attitude of doing things, and attitude is education. Education is a quiet process and a direct embodiment of parents' words and deeds. People's performance in some small things can often best explain their true colors and inner conditions. This true nature and inner state is a person's upbringing. Educated people despise neither themselves nor others.

Father can't be absent from parenting education

The pace of family education must be consistent. Criticism and correction of children's mistakes should be carried out in private, taking care of children's self-esteem; Praise children in front of others, and the meaning of rewards should be amplified through artificial communication. In addition, when teaching children to obey the rules, especially when learning the rules, they should not be forced to memorize them, but let them experience and abide by them in the process of doing things, and finally form good habits. Good habits include self-confidence, politeness and non-affectation. Self-confidence is the first element of success, so we should attach importance to and cultivate children's oral expression ability. A person who can make an impromptu speech will be a person who can cope with it in any situation. The cultivation of oral expression ability can start with letting children learn to tell stories, and then let children practice writing after they can tell them. Speaking and writing can not only add a lot of charm to life, but also be the basic element of success in the workplace. In terms of knowledge and wisdom accumulation, Chen Liaona called on parents who have the conditions to take their children out to travel more, let them learn different languages, learn about different human history through their own observation and contact, broaden their horizons and increase their knowledge.

In short, parents have the responsibility to cultivate their children into rational people, know how to restrain and control their words and deeds, have a kind heart, yearn for beauty and pursue beauty. Father can't be absent in the process of children's education, and the general cognition in China still stays in the misunderstanding that mother is the best choice for children's education. Chen Liaona quoted John Locke as saying: "Father, no matter what his situation, educating his children in person is the best gift he can leave to his children." ,

Different families have different educational purposes. Families with different cultural levels have different educational purposes.

From the point of view of rural families, the fundamental purpose of most family education is to make children promising, win honor for the family, make parents face, and more importantly, get rid of the fatigue of parents working and farming in loess.

Why is this judgment? As long as children make mistakes, parents in rural areas will probably educate their children like this: I hope you don't go to work in the factory day and night like me.

Based on this, they are willing to spend money on their children's education, but because of their low education, they often can't do it, and there is no specific direction to guide them.

From the perspective of county families, parents' educational level is relatively high, and the world they see is relatively more open. The education of children focuses on planning their future, hoping that children will develop in a bigger city and have a better future. Their education for children has some clear directions since childhood. Such as music, dance, art and other talent training. For example, the choice of schools at various stages of study.

Influenced by traditional culture and society, the purpose of our parents' family education can be summarized as: looking forward to the success of their children and their daughters.

"Parents' love for their children is far-reaching. "The ancients still so, how much more today?

My parents just want to change the fate of farmers. Although I am only a little teacher now, my parents are proud of me.

Have you fulfilled your parents' expectations? Welcome to leave a message!

Family education brought by parents is the guidance of children's growth, an example of children's various abilities and qualities, and a standard set by children's values and outlook on life.

The professional development of family education instructors has stages. At different stages of development, there are different characteristics and missions, which can be roughly divided into four stages: novice, supervisor, expert and expert. Taking American society as an example, different professional roles, such as social work, education and consulting, constitute the cause of helping others. People with different professional backgrounds play different roles, but their professional functions are highly differentiated. To make professionals in different fields understand things, the professional development of family education instructors is a combination of on-the-job education and on-the-job training, and it is pre-job training. Understanding and solutions are often limited to the perspective of their major setting. Compared with the increasing baby birth rate, there is a big gap in the number of employees, and the whole industry needs to be standardized urgently. Both the market and the industry itself are calling for a scientific and complete system of preschool education, training and evaluation, and a large number of professional and high-quality preschool education instructors are urgently needed. Parents should tell their children realistically. Mr. Chino Kejihu

Why do you want to learn family education?

In fact, China has a profound history in family education. Our country experienced slave society and feudal society. Family education tutor's application and examination subjects. Education in these two periods was completed by family education. Only when they have a good foundation will they enter the "Imperial College" of the only university in China. Family education is a fine tradition in China, the essence of China culture, an effective means to inherit the fine tradition of human beings, and the only way to realize quality education.

Kindergarten teachers should follow the following principles when conducting family education guidance: adhere to the correct orientation. In view of the irrational family education behavior of many parents at present, family education guidance in kindergartens must pay attention to the correct direction, "what to guide" and "how to guide" to be concrete and scientific.

According to the prediction of relevant institutions, China will need at least 500,000 family education guidance professionals in the future, and the family education industry will also become a hot industry with great development potential in China. Not only do education, training and management consulting companies need relevant talents, but employers such as institutions and street communities will also provide better and more job opportunities and posts for officially recognized family education tutors.