For children's education, we have been groping for progress and learning from the experience of our predecessors. After his son went to kindergarten, he thrived under the careful cultivation of teachers. Every progress he makes makes us parents feel proud and proud. At the same time, we should set an example ourselves. Take the initiative to understand children and respect their hobbies.
What children like and hate is their right. Parents should let nature take its course, be good at discovering children's interests in communication, correctly cultivate children's interests, make children's interests the focus of their attention, and encourage children to talk more about themselves. Parents care about their children, not only "seeing" with their eyes, but also "listening" with their ears.
In interpersonal communication, we know such a principle: respect others' right to speak. But in parent-child communication, parents often ignore this point. Many parents are used to using their own consciousness to lead their children's behavior. When their children make comments, or retort that "don't talk nonsense if you are strange", they will have the view that "my opinion is not critical at all".
Many times parents will ignore their children's opinions. The child is a single individual, and he has his own needs and emotional market needs. Some parents just give their children everything they want, eat, drink, have fun, live and even agree with unreasonable suggestions, which becomes a doting on their children and is not conducive to their future development.