First, how to strike up a conversation with the fleeting beauty in life
Introduction is to strike up a conversation, strike up a conversation with someone. Any occasion in life: street, bus, subway, bookstore, library, party, restaurant, etc. There may be a scene where you suddenly see her who excites you even for a long time. If not, the opportunity may never return, and you can only pass by in disappointment; What about sleeping? What should I say when I sleep? What if she ignores me? How humiliating? In front of the beautiful woman you like, you will become tongue-tied and even more afraid to fuck.
Picking up girls system
Second, why should we learn to be awkward?
We must understand that in our life, there are not many opportunities to meet a woman who excites us (mainly in the young and middle-aged). If we don't seize the opportunity, the biggest possibility is that we will never see her again. And the beauty we want to know will naturally become our classmates/colleagues, so don't wait for fate.
Don't be misled by social misconceptions and take drug abuse as a serious matter. There is nothing wrong with having sex as one of many social ways. The more civilized and progressive the society is, the more developed the strike-up culture will be. People who have been educated in western advanced countries will not have this wrong idea. Everyone loves beauty. Be honest about your thoughts and feelings about knowing the opposite sex, and don't suppress your instincts because of the unreasonable constraints of society. Don't worry about other people's eyes. In fact, although some people don't agree with the behavior of taking drugs, they envy you in your heart that you dare to do what you want to do but dare not. It's natural to talk to the people you want to know.
Being proactive can exercise a person's communicative ability and hone a person's self-confidence and self-cultivation. Being positive is a noble art, which contains courage and wisdom. After reading this book, when you can associate with the people you really want to know, you will be happy and interested in people, and your life will become extremely sunny.
Third, how to overcome psychological pressure.
The biggest challenge in life is how to overcome the fear of failure.
In the face of a girl who doesn't care, even for the first time, you can talk and laugh. Even if she ignores you, your self-esteem won't be hurt and you won't feel anything. You may even think that the other person is not "knowledgeable" and has no cultivation.
But when you meet the best beauty who looks good, you will hesitate and be tongue-tied. The same possibility of rejection, but you have a completely different reaction, just because you are afraid of failure. Fear of failure will bring you psychological pressure. And psychological pressure will make people unable to play their normal level, leading to actual failure.
So the root cause is fear of failure. The reasons for fear of failure are: self-esteem, fear of being hurt, lack of self-confidence, and being too concerned about the result. Please note that these feelings are subjective and have nothing to do with the beauty you want to pick up.
Fourth, how to overcome this psychological barrier?
A. It's normal for students to be shy when they first start taking drugs, but if they read this book and practice more in their lives, they will get better gradually.
B. The more natural you are, the less stressful you are, and the more natural and stressful the other person will feel, so the key is to adjust your mentality. The more confident you are, the more self-righteous you are. Talk to her directly as a friend, and the more she will follow your advice.
C. Even if you are a drug addict, your success rate is not high. There are successes and failures, but the more times you take drugs, the more successful cases are obviously. But you should remind yourself to remember more successful experiences to encourage yourself and sum up experiences.
D. It doesn't matter if you encounter a cold face, you can also explain yourself. The other party may be a rogue girl in society and often contacts people at sixes and sevens, so you are very wary of people; It is also possible that she comes from a feudal and backward family and has the concept of family education.
E. Even if the experience of failure brings you temporary fear, after you overcome this psychological obstacle, you will have a large forest for you to use, so you should thank her for giving you the opportunity to practice and let you grow into a master.
F. Don't pay attention to the results, but look at the habit itself, aiming at whether you have developed the habit of taking drugs. The purpose of our habits is to cultivate our positive attitude towards life, so that we can have confidence in ourselves at any occasion, talk confidently with people we want to know and establish friendly relations with them.
G. When you are in trouble, don't approach her with the intention of "going to fuck her". Just like the emperor chooses a concubine, you should consider it after screening. Even if you don't actually have the courage, you should have such a condescending mentality. This mentality can help you overcome your fear of crude drugs and face it easily.
In short, don't be discouraged, so as to maintain the motivation to continue to indulge. If one day you become a master, you will realize that the other person's reaction no longer has an important influence on yourself. What a real man values is whether he can live up to his own ideas and sincerity in getting to know each other.
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Fifth, women are born as human beings.
Usually, women don't dislike strangers' sex in their hearts, because they subconsciously think it is a proof of their charm. They remember the experience of being abused in their lives vividly and are often talked about by them, which greatly satisfies their vanity. Therefore, whether she accepts you or not, you are doing charity, satisfying her vanity and caring for her self-confidence. In order to give women more experiences that bring them pride, we will work hard on ourselves and do our best!
Introduction of intransitive verbs
Don't ask her if she can only answer "yes or no" or "good or bad", so it's easy to get stuck in the topic and not go on. This kind of question is like "can you meet?" "How about making friends?" Are you a student? "Have a chat, will you?" "How about going to dinner together?" .
So, what should I say in the first sentence? The best routine is "like+ask". Please refer to the "praise" in the book "How to make women like you".
When you first meet her, try to avoid praising her appearance. Even if you are attracted by her appearance, you should show that you are not only attracted by her appearance, but also pay attention to her uniqueness, no matter how insignificant it is in essence. For example, "How high are your soles? ..... you won't swing like a tumbler in such high shoes like other girls. "
Seven, the praise of the opening remarks should be implicit, without trace.
When praising her, don't wait for her reaction consciously, even if you have this consciousness, you can't let her notice. For example, after complimenting her, you can't giggle and wait for her to reply, but go on talking. For example, in a bar, praise her first, "Your earrings are really beautiful!" "Then turn around and chat with your friend, don't go to see her; Or ask the bartender for a glass of wine immediately after the compliment. If she doesn't talk to you, you can start with something like "Hey, Earring Girl" later.
If the situation is that you directly express your desire to know each other, after you express this desire, you can talk about yourself immediately, such as your job and so on, without waiting for her to say yes or no.
A good opening line is this:
A. "Where are your parents from? Why are you so white/tall? " .
B. "Are you Japanese/Korean?"
C. "My watch is broken. What time is it? " Put the watch down or forward first.
D. "Everyone in my dormitory says that you are a flower of X department. With so many boys pursuing you, can't you be busy every day?" Whether she is a flower or not, she will definitely come to deny it, and knowing that she has many suitors and is confident to talk to her, her first impression of you will be good.