1, take care of others. Understand each other. Every adult has also experienced puberty, so when facing children who are also in this period, parents should change their roles, treat their children's problems with heart and maintain an equal relationship with them. Teenagers have begun to have their own ideas and opinions, and he will not blindly obey his parents' orders as he did when he was a child. Therefore, in order to reduce the occurrence of children talking back, parents must change their original practices and put themselves and their children on an equal footing. Listen to your children's opinions and ideas when you encounter something, and discuss solutions with them. Even if the child's opinions are not neat, be patient and give him facts and reasons, so that he can understand why he should do this and not do that. If the child is convinced, his mouth will not be so hard.

2. handle it calmly. Relax. When children have serious rebellious behavior, parents should learn to control their emotions and calmly enlighten them. They can also consult a psychologist appropriately and solve the problem step by step with an understanding attitude. Adolescent children generally do not know how to control themselves. He may be more emotional when he doesn't believe in the discipline of adults. At this time, parents should never be anxious with their children, let alone get angry when they talk back to them, or even add fists to their children, because doing so will not only help solve the problem, but will make the emotions of both sides more antagonistic, the children more unconvinced, and the contradiction between father and son or mother and child will also intensify and escalate. In the end, children will be hostile to their parents, bear grudges against their parents, and even add fists to their children.

3. Observe carefully. Let go moderately. Parents should learn to observe more and interfere less. Parents should grasp important issues when educating their children, set a big framework and principles for their children, let them freely arrange their own activities on the basis of not violating principles and crossing borders, and give them the right to choose. Parents should realize that their children have reached the stage of learning independence and self-management, and their education should conform to their development, and they should dare to let go when it is time to let go. If everything is decided by parents, children will feel wronged, feel that parents don't trust and respect them, and children will feel deprived of their autonomy. In order to get rid of the shackles and fight for freedom, children may choose to fight against their parents. Of course, parents should do their due diligence, observe carefully and give guidance and guidance at the right time while letting go moderately.