The psychological mechanism behind the baby's losing his temper.
With the wall, frustration and parents' interference, the baby's self-esteem was broken. She doesn't know why, so she throws things and fights with adults to show his inner depression, shame, anger and deeper sadness. This is the psychological mechanism behind the baby's temper.
Observe the specific situation of the baby losing his temper.
Carefully observe the specific situation of the baby's temper, such as when, what events caused it and how it developed, and then analyze the real reasons according to the psychological mechanism of the baby's temper, so as to understand "what happened", thus enhancing parents' grasp and confidence in handling this matter.
Support and encouragement
When the baby usually touches the east and touches the west, under the premise of considering safety, she insists on the attitude of support and encouragement to satisfy her innate curiosity and freshness; When the baby finally fails in many attempts and starts to be anxious, parents should intervene in time and quietly provide necessary guidance and help so that the baby can find new solutions and rekindle interest. In this way, the baby's energy can be guided in a positive direction.
Listen to the baby's heartbeat.
Losing your temper is a way to pour out your heart. Parents should listen wholeheartedly, stay with her quietly, keep a certain physical distance, look the child in the eye gently, pat her on the back and tell her, "I feel you are very sad." After the baby feels accepted and understood, his emotions will naturally ease, and he will divert his attention and start a new exploration.