The strict education of parents will make children worry too much or even give up their own decisions when they do something or make some decisions, which limits their free play and is not conducive to the display of their self-abilities.
2. The relationship between children and parents is not intimate.
Due to the strict education of parents, children will have a constraint on their parents, and they will always maintain a well-behaved image in front of their parents, not as close as normal family relations.
3, affect the child's personality
Too strict education, it is easy for children to have extreme personality, either rebellious or too cowardly, which will affect their future development.
4. Affect children's psychology
Children who grow up in a high-pressure environment for a long time will have psychological shadows, even psychological obstacles and mental diseases.
Tolerance and strict education are good education.
1. Parents should be open-minded and allow their children to make mistakes.
Children are children after all. If he wants to grow up, he will make mistakes. Imagine, is there anyone in the world who can't make mistakes? Didn't we also grow up with mistakes? With this awareness, parents may be more tolerant of their children's mistakes. Moreover, children will make all kinds of mistakes. For example, when they see the rice bowl on the table confiscated, it may be broken, which is a good intention to do bad things. Parents just need to tell him the rules of doing things. For small mistakes that persist in teaching, parents can change their education methods and agree with their children on punishment measures for mistakes, which will greatly reduce the "incidence rate".
Parents should be strict with their children's education.
As the saying goes, strictness is love, and looseness is harm. No matter whether you teach or not, it will get worse. This is only one aspect of family education. Indeed, families in cities are all only children now, and parents' doting and pampering are widespread, which should be taken as a warning. On the other hand, we should give children selfless love and broad love, regardless of whether their grades are excellent or not, regardless of whether they often make mistakes. As the saying goes, be strict and merciful, and abandon it as our shoes. However, at the same time, we should also tell our children that to accept their parents' love, they should pay their due obligations, that is, they should strive to grow up and not slack off. Children may not study well, but they should work hard; Children don't have to go to college, but they must succeed. Parents remember: children are allowed to choose different growth paths, but parents will never cultivate a mediocre person!