Parents should have a headache about their children's education. In this era of information explosion, there are various educational concepts, and parents are always confused about what kind of educational method is right in educating their children.
My parents' generation grew up in an environment of stick education and repressive education. They think that this kind of education is still applicable now, and there are still many people who educate their children in this way. Children are not only difficult to discipline, but also difficult to discipline, which eventually leads to bad consequences.
Give her a grateful smile, an encouraging word, praise her correctly, and talk to her wrongly. It will get better and better! Blindly losing your temper, shouting or even beating and cursing will only have a negative impact, leading to children's rebellious psychology, inferiority and self-confidence! In fact, "education is not equal to curriculum". The latter can only be an obstacle to the former. Excellent children are encouraged. Such children will be more courageous, confident and independent!
Children from other families can be the motivation for children to improve themselves, but for children, they think that their parents seem to prefer children from other families, and they can't meet their parents' requirements if they can't do anything well. What they feel is the denial of their parents.
Comparing children with others at every turn, in fact, not only can not encourage children, but also make them feel hurt and become inferior and jealous. Wrong encouragement, even if it is behind parents' love and expectation for their children, even if the starting point is good, can't make up for the harm caused to children.
People naturally like to be praised. Treating children in this educational way can make them grow up in a relaxed and happy atmosphere and cultivate their self-confidence. Children who grow up in this environment will be more conducive to their healthy and happy growth.