1. Encourage him to exercise more, play ball games with your children, ride a bike and swim? Doing more exercise can not only exercise a child's physique, but also make him more cheerful. Maintaining a vibrant life can moderately relieve children's stress and emotions, make children like themselves, have a more positive body image, and find fun and a sense of accomplishment from sports.

2. Create a good environment for children. Environmental edification has an important influence on children's growth. Parents should consciously create a good living environment and learning environment, cultivate a good atmosphere and let their children be infected and edified.

3. Intimate feelings with children. In the process of cultivating a happy personality, friendship plays a very important role. Therefore, children should be encouraged to play with their peers and learn interpersonal communication.

4. Learn to adjust children's mentality, let children understand that the future is always bright when they are frustrated, and teach children to adjust their psychological state.

5. Appropriate rewards and punishments. When a child does a correct and commendable thing, parents should give praise and reward to encourage the child to continue doing it. When a child does something wrong, parents should choose an appropriate way to criticize and correct the child, and punish the child appropriately when it is serious. You can't just reward without punishment, otherwise you will easily fall into the situation of doting on your children.

6. Restrain yourself and set a good example. As the saying goes, parents are children's first teachers, and teaching by example is more important than teaching by words. Parents should first pay attention to their own cultivation and establish their own prestige. A parent who doesn't like learning and only eats, drinks and plays, a parent who is at a loss, a parent with bad conduct, vulgar behavior, selfishness and disrespect for the elderly, will not cultivate a good child.