Yu once said, "If the family is a copier and the parents are originals, then the children are photocopies." The child is born with a blank sheet of paper, and the child itself is fine. Once there is a problem with education, the root cause must be adults. Children's education is only once, and there is no way to take it back and start over. Of course, without perfect parents, we should keep learning and growing. It is a good education for children not to be lazy, not to relax and to be a better self.
Seeing a paragraph from my parents, I was deeply touched: many times I will reflect. Am I doing the right thing in educating children? When other children get 100, will I: I only care about blaming children for not working hard, but forget that I don't pay much attention to them; When the teacher talks to me, will I: only care about complaining about the children's disappointment, but ignore my absence? Perhaps, I neglected the education of children. Yes, children have only one childhood, and education will never succeed again. Can you make up for your failure in educating children? What if educating children is an exam? How many points can I get as a parent?
1. Children's birthday parties, parent-teacher conferences, performance competitions, etc. Even if you are a silent audience, you will make your children feel love.
2. Put down your parents' airs and other trifles at the right time. Go crazy and have fun with the kids. It can not only imply intimate parent-child relationship, but also help to stimulate children's initiative.
3. Being a learning parent, blindly asking children to learn, but never holding up books, will only inspire children's "rebellious psychology" invisibly. Parents love to study, so they can set a good example.
4. Be a kneeling parent, don't just take responsibility for your child, and kneel at the right time; From the perspective of children, look at the world in ta's eyes. Parents and children should be equal, respect each other and have the same personality.
5. Being an understanding parent, we have all experienced the anguish of "not being understood"; Don't pass this feeling on to our children. You care about children from the psychological level, and ta will get closer and closer to you.
6, be a reasonable parent, people are not saints, parents make mistakes, but also have the courage to admit. If you are sensible, not rude, your children will gradually become sensible and empathetic.