First, see the essence clearly and find self-worth as "enlightenment"
The left side of "Wu" stands upright, indicating that you are thinking with your heart. The right side of "Wu" means "oneself". The combination of "I" and "I" means that a person is not parroting, but repeatedly thinking, analyzing and judging what he has seen and heard, and transforming it into his own opinion, making it a powerful internal transformation and problem-solving ability, and carrying forward his own value. Such people are "highly savvy" people.
I met some parents who love learning, but many parents told me, "I spent a lot of money to learn how to educate my children, but once I got back to reality, I still couldn't solve the problem." I see some parents, in the triviality of life, facing the shadow of life that is difficult to untie, their hearts are covered layer by layer, and the luster on their faces fades layer by layer. This is not what you learn by calming down and "understanding". Some theories that treat the symptoms rather than the root cause work for one person, but not for another. We should turn the theory we have learned into our own things.
For example, should children lose at the starting line? There are two kinds of voices. What do we do? Either way, if the method is right, the children will benefit; If the method is wrong, it may delay the child. The child is still young, which is the "understanding" of parents. If you are busy all day, deal with problems with emotions, or blindly compare with others without reflecting on the results, you will lose your spirit. It can only be rain on dry land. The darkness in the heart can't be changed by any cosmetics, only by improving "consciousness"!
I once read a story: one day, a scholar walked at night and met an old man with a fairy wind and a crane bone, so he walked together. On the way, the old man said that there was a man in the front room. He was a great scholar. The scholar asked curiously, "How did you see it?" The old man replied, "This man is a Yuan God. The book you read in your chest is full of brilliance and omniscient knowledge. Its shape is ethereal and colorful, rotten as splendid. ..... The lights in this room are seven or eight feet high, so we can see. " Hearing this, the scholar was more curious and asked, "Please help me to see how high the light on the roof is when I sleep?" The old man hesitated for a long time before hesitantly saying, "I passed by your house yesterday." To be honest, I only saw black smoke from the roof, as if it were covered by dark clouds and there was no light! " Hearing this, the scholar became angry from embarrassment and left by himself. This story sounds a bit mysterious, but it is worthy of being used as a mirror by people all over the world to reflect on themselves. Even the scholar's anger from embarrassment deserves our introspection. If a scholar reaches the realm of Confucius' saying that "a threesome must have a teacher", he will certainly learn the true meaning of learning from the elderly. If you can turn the knowledge in books into your own and use it flexibly, it will naturally shine and look extraordinary; If people follow the trend, have no opinions and keep their mouths shut, it is nothing more than a cliche, and they will only smoke.
Second, worry is the best opportunity to improve our "understanding"
Lifestyle, ways of knowing people, ways of relationship, ways of success, experiences of Fiona Fang, ways of family education, etc. , all need our understanding. When we are in a bottleneck or can't get rid of our troubles, it is the best time to improve our "understanding". The way to improve "understanding" is to get rid of complaining emotions first. Leibniz said: "There is one of the simplest laws in the universe. Those bad things exist for good things." In the real world, there are times when evil surpasses good, but in the end it always belongs to good, not evil, conspiracy and mutual destruction. I believe. We should bravely accept our imperfect selves,
Calm down to break the inherent way of thinking, put forward new solutions and new possibilities, look at old problems from a new angle, improve your "understanding" of breaking through the bottleneck, get rid of the ignorance of "emotional slaves turning into disgusting faces" and keep yourself in a harmonious state.
When it comes to looking at old problems from a new perspective, I think of an old saying quoted at the beginning of this article: "Learning five cars is not as good as understanding life!" This old saying is inspiring to illustrate the importance of "enlightenment", but without the accumulation of knowledge and experience, it is difficult to have a deep sense of "enlightenment". Everything has advantages and disadvantages, not absolute. We should learn to control the advantages outweigh the disadvantages!
Third, people should have a clear bottom line at all times.
People suffer because luck drives them to do something wrong. Therefore, even as a senior official, we must have a clear mind and a bottom line of not breaking the law. In the state of Lu in the Spring and Autumn Period, there was a doctor named Gong Yixiu. Because of his excellent moral character and talent, he was elected as the prime minister of Lu. Gong Yixiu likes to eat fish. When someone offered him fish, he refused. The fish delivery man said, "I heard that you like fish. Why don't you accept the fish I sent?" Gong Yixiu said, "Because I like fish, I can't accept your fish! Now that I am the prime minister, I can buy myself fish. If I am removed from the post of prime minister because I accepted the fish you sent me, I can't afford to eat fish myself from now on. Will you send me fish again? In this way, can I eat fish again? Therefore, I can never accept the fish you sent me. " For an official, if he doesn't understand this, he may get burned and even lose everything he has to live in. Because you can see through it, you can put it down. This kind of self-discipline and control self-discipline is the concentration and cultivation gained from "enlightenment".
When you see the first sign of a thing, you can know its essence and development trend; When someone flatters you, you can not get carried away and prevent a little delay. The civil servant is an open-minded person. His honesty and law-abiding were passed on to future generations.
Things have Qian Qian's doubts, and feelings have all kinds of doubts. Only by improving your understanding and not blindly following can you not be confused.
Good luck always favors people with "understanding"!