In the process of growing up, especially in adolescence, children are sensitive in character, changeable in mood, full of curiosity and adventurous spirit, but their self-control ability is still being cultivated. The cooperation between family education and school education has become particularly important. This paper will discuss how to solve three common contradictions in the family and help parents better guide their children's growth.

The role of parents

Parents are not only the guardians of children, but also the guides of children. In the process of children's growth, parents should learn to respect and trust their children and encourage them to solve problems independently. Our task is to guide children, find ways to deal with difficulties, and at the same time maintain good communication with children.

The difference between family education and school education

Family education focuses on cultivating children's learning ability, while school education pays more attention to imparting knowledge. Under the policy of double reduction, home-school cooperation has become particularly important. Parents and schools should work together to create a better growth environment for their children.

Harmonious family communication

Family harmonious communication is an important part of family education. Parents should understand their children's thoughts and needs as much as possible and establish good communication channels with their children. Only in this way can parents better guide their children and help them grow up.