2. Men are divided into three kinds of husbands: weak husbands, violent husbands and husbands.
3. Equality between men and women means equality in power and enjoyment. There must be no equality in responsibility and etiquette.
4. Men should be "just". It's not just beating and cursing, the person who beats and curses is an incompetent person.
) how education is not in place.
Zhijie and his wife are grateful to each other and never complain. Italian couple are very happy. A husband leads his wife to become a teacher, and a wife helps her husband to become a virtuous man. They will never get angry. The couple in the inner world are polite couples, so they will govern each other! Couples in the physical world are abusive couples who disturb their lives.
6, contentment, living at home. Carry forward the family style, praise Zude, and educate future generations to know how to be grateful, grateful and grateful.
7. Being an upright person means that parents should first turn it into temperament and cultivate nature. Self-denial is the only way to educate children. Whether children are filial, ask yourself whether they are kind.
8. The whole family is founded on love. Without love, families cannot be established. Love is the first condition for marriage.
9. The husband has the courage to take on the responsibility of a family to convince others. If the family is at fault, they will be ashamed of themselves.
10, the husband takes care of her parents-in-law, and the wife respects her parents-in-law; For example, to buy things for the elderly, the son-in-law should personally give them to her parents-in-law, and the daughter-in-law should personally give them to her parents-in-law.
1 1. If you are destined to love someone, you must first understand his duties. Complement each other and improve their responsibilities. Inspire each other and play their role. If you don't control each other's freedom, you should give them happiness, not trouble. Complement each other and understand each other's physiology and psychology.
12, selfish people will do things against their conscience behind their backs, which makes the whole family very annoyed. This is not a good man.
13. Only when there is a way can there be virtue; When there is no Tao, there is no virtue; There can be no happiness without virtue.
14, whether a family is developed and whether children and grandchildren are prosperous is directly related to whether the old people in the class have good roots. The elderly are virtuous, and their children and grandchildren are prosperous; The old man is wicked, his family fortune is declining, his family fortune is not prosperous, and his fragrance is dead.
15, the star of abundance of a family, based on ambition. That is, taking the happiness of the whole family as our responsibility and benefiting the whole family.
16. Whether a family is happy, quiet and prosperous is very important. A woman can be a wife with water, have children, help her husband become virtuous and have a happy family.
17, sexual (natural) combination, spiritual combination, physical combination. Is the real harmony between husband and wife.
18. Whether a child is healthy or not has a lot to do with his mother, and whether he is smart or not has a lot to do with his father. Whether he is solemn or not depends on whether his parents often do things with happy love.
19. Children belong to themselves, to society and to heaven and earth. If a child can't teach well, it will affect his family, society and the world. Educating children well is a great responsibility.
20. Publicize the merits and demerits of the elderly and their ancestors to their children, be a filial example of respecting the elderly and loving the young, and enlighten future generations with gratitude for the kindness of their ancestors.
2 1. Daughter-in-law means to calm down the discord of a family, to be an auspicious messenger of a harmonious family, to be equal and friendly to everyone, and to be the blessing of the whole family.
22, daughter-in-law when sex is like water, sex is like water to be content with happiness, meaning root, full of family, pleasing people. Being a happy star of a family, being filial to parents, neutralizing sister-in-law and being kind to children can help a husband become virtuous. So her husband can serve the society, stand on the street and make a name for himself. Not only run a family, work in society, but also abide by your duties and make a difference. Only by having a long family life can we enjoy a long life.
23. To be a husband, we must decide from the "three cardinal guides", which refer to sex, mind and body; Immortality (not losing your temper) is the key to sex; Can't afford selfish desires; No bad habits as the key link. Anger is sexual breakdown; Swearing is the heart; Beating someone is falling. "Help" is to lead, and women must get on the road, be filial to their parents-in-law, be gentle with their sisters-in-law, and be kind to their children.
24. A wife must first settle down from the "three obedience" in order to help her husband become virtuous. "Three Obediences" means that the nature is from heaven, the mind is from reason, and the body is from reason. What is "obeying reason"? Do what you have to do. It is my duty to be filial to my parents-in-law, gentle to my sister-in-law, and to teach my children well. Not afraid of hardships and difficulties. Don't get angry, complain or regret after doing it. "Follow the truth from the heart": it refers to getting rid of greed and disturbing selfishness. All I can think about is how to repay the kindness of the old man. How to live in harmony and how to educate children? Keep the interests of the whole family in mind, and everything you do will naturally be harmonious everywhere. "Nature follows nature": we should not only give priority to immobile nature, but also eliminate temperament, improve nature and carry things with morality.
25. As the saying goes, everything goes well at home. As small as the country's prosperity, social peace, personal happiness, career prosperity and physical health, all depend on a harmonious family.
26. I often mention the advantages of my daughter-in-law and appreciate her family's education. If the daughter-in-law is wrong, her mother-in-law will come quickly, be tolerant first, and then teach her a lesson behind her back. Never quarrel with her, the daughter-in-law will naturally be grateful and repay her kindness.
27, true love without prejudice: sincerely believe, don't doubt each other.
28. Respect the old and love the young in the last life. Use gratitude to perfect everything and make the family harmonious.
A weak husband is also called a coward and cannot support a family. Only Nuo Nuo, who just talks and doesn't do it, dares not take responsibility, pushes the woman to the front and follows her instructions.
30. If it is out of line, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not agree, the housework will be inseparable, the family will fall apart and the family will be unhappy.
3 1, like water in a circle, with five colors and five flavors, the original is always the same. Happy-go-lucky, rich and poor, can be high or low, such as water can support everything, do not compete with everything, at the lowest place, low down, often admit that it is not, is the duty of women.
32. When men are in place, there will be fewer disasters at home; If men can't do it, the family will be troubled.
33. My mother-in-law comes early and knows everything. Daughter-in-law came late and didn't know anything. Mother-in-law should take her daughter-in-law to the road, tell her what she doesn't know, guide her and don't do anything difficult, just like her daughter.
My mother-in-law has been a daughter-in-law for many years. She married a daughter-in-law and became her mother-in-law. Daughter-in-law is the girl at home. As soon as I got married, I went to my mother-in-law's house and became a daughter-in-law.
35. I should love what my mother-in-law loves; I should respect the people I love. I'm sure I can win the joy of my mother-in-law. If you can understand the old man's heart and obey his wishes, you will get this word.
36. A woman has three wives: a bitch, a weak woman and a daughter-in-law.
37. Women should be gentle, smile peacefully and be welcomed by their families.
38. A woman is the mother of the country, the wife of the family and the wife of the people.
39. A woman who does nothing but rely on her husband and parents is called a weak woman.
40. Women are lazy, complaining is the jinx of the family, and bitchy women are not daughters-in-law.
4 1, women are violent, take charge of men, bully men mentally, talk like thunder, are very strong, and dominate the world, so they are called bitches. In this kind of family, the yin flourishes and the yang declines, the husband declines before he is old, or even dies young, and the children born are useless.
42. Women are busy and men are silent; Women are not soft and their wealth is not prosperous.
If you can do this, you will be at home and everything will be prosperous.
44. To be a man, you should keep your word, one is one, the other is two, and you keep your word.
45. Men have men's duties, women have women's duties, and yin and yang have their own positions. Men are upright and upright; Women are soft-oriented. "Gang" is motionless (don't lose your temper), and "Zheng" is right. "Softness" is as important as water, and "harmony" makes sense. Therefore, completeness is softness, and softness is completeness. Although the terms are different, the spirit is the same.
46. Men belong to Yang, and Yang is selfless. Selflessness means expressing love for a family.
Peace is the key word for managing the family. -Qian Qing Yong "Walking in the Garden, Managing the Family"
Awakening parents should be voluntary, altruistic and sacrificial. -Lu Xun, "How Should We Be Fathers Now"
One heart at home, money to buy gold; Two hearts at home, no money to buy needles. -Xu Ming Wei "Kill the Dog"
Strict family style and harmonious family; Living in the countryside is tolerant, and the countryside is harmonious. -Wang Qing Yu's Banana Window Diary
Peace is the key word for managing the family. -Qian Qing Yong "Walking in the Garden, Managing the Family"
Those who have rich children but have accomplished nothing are lost in appeasement; Poor children are easy to become accustomed to strict constraints. -Zhou's "Show"
If you don't teach, your father is guilty; What is a teacher? A strict missionary. -Wang Song Yinglin's "Holy Amethyst"
Self-cultivation, family, and then rule the country, rule the country and then the world is at peace. -The Book of Rites University