Now most children are only children, and all the love in the family is devoted to him. Parents should pay more attention to wisdom and morality and cultivate their children's love. Over time, children think that "the delicious food is mine and the fun is mine", and unconsciously form selfish psychology and habits that only care about themselves and don't care about others. For example, when eating, bring your favorite dishes and enjoy them alone; Clap your hands and laugh when you see other children falling around; When you see an injured frog, you will kill it with a brick; Even cruelly break legs, pull the tail of dogs and kittens at home and so on. It is hard to imagine how these unloving and unsympathetic children will become useful talents for social health in the future.

There are many reasons for Shao Fei's brain swelling, which can be summarized as follows;

First, parents' doting is the primary reason. Children's reasonable or unreasonable demands are always met as much as possible, but some behavioral mistakes of children are left unchecked and ignored. In this way, children's "self-centered" consciousness will develop.

Second, parents ignore emotional education. Some parents are generous with their children's "intellectual investment" and do not pay attention to the cultivation of their children's ideology and morality. This practice of "valuing wisdom over morality" makes children lack intimacy.

Third, some parents educate their children in a "revenge-style" way, teaching them that "if he hits you once, you will pay him back twice". Imagine, can such a child understand the meaning of "modesty and friendliness"? Fourth, there are deeper reasons. Many parents think that they love their children so much that children will naturally repay their parents when they grow up. In early childhood education, parents should pay more attention to cultivating children's love. Children who don't know how to accept love from an early age and don't know how to give will find it hard to repay their parents, let alone others and society when they grow up.

Therefore, it is urgent to change the status quo. To change the status quo, parents' educational consciousness must be changed, and parents should do the following:

1. Children are naive and like to imitate. In family education, parents must be good role models for their children. Children's experience of their parents' specific behaviors is often more effective than boring language preaching.

2. Education guides children to care for others, be considerate and understand others in their daily lives. Live in harmony with others and care for each other.

3. Educate children to love their parents, everyone and society. Let children understand their parents' love and educate them to have sex with their children. Let children do what they can, let them experience the hardships of their parents, let them understand their parents like others, and cultivate their feelings of caring for others.

4. Cultivate children's compassion in various ways. Let children watch the heroic deeds of saving lives and helping others in movies and TV, supplemented by their own feelings, and inspire their sympathy for the victims and admiration for the needy. Tell some heroic stories to children to strengthen their patriotism. Another example is to let children participate in activities such as raising small animals and cultivating plants. Together with the children, they cheered for the germination of seeds, the broken shells of chickens and ducks, and felt sorry for the withering of flowers and plants, the injury of birds and the unfortunate death of small fish. This kind of emotional experience provides children with an excellent opportunity to feel the hearts of others and sprout sympathy.

Give our future to a generation of caring children, and in the near future, our society will be a prosperous and loving world!