? Parents can start from the following aspects:
? 1. As parents, we must understand that children's learning depends not on the supervision behind their parents, but on their own initiative.
"Stop playing and do your homework. Your grades are so poor. Why do we have to play endlessly? Stop watching TV and do your homework! " This is what many parents say when their children are not studying. At this time, the child will always answer impatiently, "I will study every day."
Reluctantly studying under the urging of parents is often absent-minded, inefficient and even ineffective. Therefore, when a student insists on being urged by his parents to study, it means that the child has not completed what his parents asked me to do. Learning has changed my study. I compare each student to an engine. As parents, the first thing to do is to ignite the children's learning engine, so that children can move forward independently and take the initiative to learn.
? 2. Establish children's sense of crisis and responsibility, and explain the importance of the senior high school entrance examination to children! Let children know the serious consequences of not going to school in the senior high school entrance examination.
As we all know, the senior high school entrance examination only gives each junior high school student one chance. If you are admitted to high school, you will go to high school. If you don't get into high school, you will be mercilessly shut out of high school. Once this step is reached, children basically lose their college dreams! At the same time, if the child's academic performance in the first and second stages of junior high school is not good, according to the relevant provisions of the Compulsory Education Law, it is not allowed to repeat the grade.
? 3. Pay attention to children's test scores, find problems and solve them in time, so as to keep children's academic performance at a medium level.
Parents should let their children know that high school admission after the senior high school entrance examination is determined according to the results of the senior high school entrance examination. Be sure to keep your academic performance at the bottom line of ordinary high school classes, which requires your child's usual mid-term period. The test scores can be kept in the middle of the class, and there can be no serious partiality in each subject and no subjects that fail.
Therefore, when a child fails one or two subjects in junior high school, parents must quickly help the child make up this weak subject in order to keep up with the progress. The teacher lectures and learns to understand in the third grade. Only the knowledge of grade three can get good grades in the senior high school entrance examination. Therefore, if the child's score fluctuates around 70 points, parents should be vigilant and let the child make up the knowledge loopholes in this assignment. Don't put it off any more, or it will accumulate more and more, and it will be difficult to make up for the lack of knowledge in Grade One and Grade Three in the second year! At the same time, getting lower and lower grades will only hurt children's self-confidence and enthusiasm for learning!