After entering primary school, Xiao Qiang is the discipline committee member in the class. Because of the need of work, Xiao Qiang often has conflicts with his classmates. Therefore, Xiao Qiang was very depressed. One day, he said to his father, "I thought being a policeman was awesome, but it was too much trouble." Now I am a member of the Commission for Discipline Inspection, and I have been retaliated by my classmates. What can I do if I become a policeman in the future? I'm still not a COP! "
When children are young, their value lies in being fearless. They are not afraid of imperfection, nor do they worry about not knowing what to do. They just strode forward for their dreams.
Unfortunately, the social environment soon changed this. When children grow up, society teaches them to avoid failure. The hierarchy in our education reinforces this view. As a result, children often change their dreams, and once they encounter setbacks, they will give up their original dreams.
In fact, dreams are very important for children's future success.
1925, in a small town called Wilhelm, Germany, a boy of 13 years old tied six huge fireworks on his scooter, and then he lit the fuse. The explosion of fireworks came one after another, the scooter flew out like crazy, and the boy was slammed to the ground. As a result, the loud explosion attracted the police, and the teenager was taken to the police station and reprimanded.
This boy is the famous scientist Feng? Braun
Brown has been interested in astronomy and rockets since childhood. His ambition is to fly. In order to realize his ambition, Braun has carried out various experiments, and this whimsical experiment is one of them. Although the experiment was unsuccessful, Braun had tasted the taste of "flying" and decided to continue his experiment.
After graduating from Brown University, he got a pilot's license. Then, he entered the Penemende large rocket experimental base, served as the director of the technical department, and began to lead the development of rockets. 1937 german series a rockets and V-2 rockets were developed under his auspices.
After World War II, Feng? Braun came to America to develop rockets. The Cupid rocket developed under his leadership sent America's first artificial satellite into space, and Saturn series rockets became the core of landing on the moon.
Braun became a world-famous rocket expert and finally realized his ambition of flying since he was a child.
Whoever wants to realize his dream must work hard for it. The road to dreams is not smooth sailing. In this process, difficulties, obstacles and setbacks are always accompanied. And this process is also a process of testing a person's will. Some people have realized their dreams, while others have never been able to. This is the difference. Parents must make their children understand that in order to realize their dreams, they must persistently pursue this dream and not change for any difficulties or setbacks.
Ji Kang, a thinker and writer in the Wei and Jin Dynasties in China, taught his son to be a noble man in family precepts. He should stick to it and not give up halfway. He said: "People without ambition are inhuman. But if a gentleman is cautious, he will do whatever he wants, which is equal to his goodness, and then he will propose before moving. If you have made up your mind, you will swear by words, die, and be ashamed. " If a person has no ambition, he can't be considered a "person", but once his ambition is determined, he must be loyal to his heart and cannot change it.
Ji Kang's "Book of Teaching Children" requires his son to be firm, persistent and not moved by external things, which is inspiring to every parent.
In family education, parents must encourage their children to stick to their dreams.
When a child was helping his mother clean, he said, "Mom, don't let me do this kind of thing in the future." I intend to be a writer. I will hire a nanny in the future, so I don't have to do these things myself! "
Mother said, "As a writer, you need to have life experience. If you don't even want to clean up and experience, how can you write a work that readers agree with? The so-called' how can we sweep the world without sweeping a house?' You don't want to experience cleaning today, and you don't want to experience the life of ordinary people in the future. In this way, your thoughts will be divorced from ordinary people forever, and I am afraid that only you can understand what you write. "
"Mom, what you said is really reasonable." The child is very thoughtful.
"Mom is not an expression. You can see the growing environment of great writers. Are determined by dreams from an early age, and then work hard, study hard, get the true meaning from life, and the inspiration will continue. Son, mom wants you to realize your dream, but your dream needs to be done step by step, and you can't wait. "
Mother's words have played a certain role in the children. After a child's dream is firm, it is easier to accept the hardships and setbacks in life.
Parents should always talk to their children about their dreams, the difficulties encountered in the process of realizing their dreams, and how to overcome them. In this process, parents can naturally tell their children some truth about sticking to their dreams. At the same time, telling stories about great men and people around them is also very effective.
Parents should encourage their children to set up their dreams from an early age, and don't change their dreams easily. Parents must be cautious in the face of children's dreams. Parents' contempt often leads children to despise their dreams. It is natural for children to change their dreams at will and give up their dreams when they encounter difficulties.