Faced with the negative emotions caused by children's excessive pressure, some parents always disagree and think that children are too melodramatic. After all, every child has to finish the same homework. Why can't you bear it, the efficiency is so low?
For children, the attitude of parents is completely adding fuel to the fire. They are not considerate, but cynical, so that they can't feel the love of their parents. On the contrary, the pressure in their hearts will get bigger and bigger, and eventually exceed the psychological critical point. At this time, children may do something radical. Parents should not take it lightly and beware of tragedies.
Many parents think it is reasonable to get along with their children, but parents must remember not to be reasonable with their children when they are dominated by emotions. When children have emotional breakdown, the only thing they need is understanding and comfort. Even if the problem lies in the child himself, parents should hug the child at this time to calm the child's mood. After calming the child's emotions, you can talk to the child calmly and let the child understand the pains of the parents.
Parents should also try to avoid being unfriendly to their children when they have emotional breakdown due to homework pressure, and be more understanding and considerate, so as to really solve the problem.
2. Improve children's efficiency
After the children calm down, parents will start to solve the problem from the root.
Does the child have much homework? The answer is of course yes, but this question is not new. Parents who are troubled by this problem now face the same problem in their childhood.
Children do have a lot of homework to do, but it doesn't mean that they can't finish it. Many children do well. As long as the children concentrate on class, it won't take long to finish these homework. Therefore, under the current education system, in order to fundamentally solve this problem, parents should improve the efficiency of their children's study and homework.
Parents can create a better and quieter learning environment for their children. When children do their homework, keep them away from all kinds of electronic products for a while. Never let children do their homework while playing with toys. All kinds of toys are distracted, and the efficiency of children's homework is very low. Parents should pay attention.
3. Pay attention to actively cooperate with teachers to discuss countermeasures and help children finish their homework better.
No matter how busy parents are, they should communicate with teachers properly on weekdays to understand their children's learning at school. If the child does not perform well in class, parents must intervene in time and cooperate with the teacher to find ways to make the child learn better. Children's learning efficiency has improved, and they can naturally do their homework with ease.