Everyone has experienced it since childhood, and it has taken more than ten years to grow up to today. Many people still don't understand their parents when they are young or even when they grow up. Some people are alienated from their parents because they feel that their parents always hurt them and force them to do things they don't like. Therefore, even if such children grow up, they are still somewhat dissatisfied with their parents. So today, let's talk about what parents always say is good for children, and whether it is really good for children.
As parents, they all hope that their children will be well, and that they will have a good future and choose the right path when they grow up. Therefore, many times they will interfere with their children's major decisions, because their parents' life experiences are still relatively sufficient for their children, such as filling in their volunteers for the college entrance examination, finding a job after graduation, and even finding an object in the future.
Some strong parents will not consider their children's feelings, but will only force their children to take the path they choose for their children. They also euphemistically call it for their own good. In fact, this kind of parents' kindness to their children is not really good for their children. The child is a thoughtful independent individual, so parents should consider for the child, after all, it is their own life. Many choices should be decided by children themselves, and parents can only give reference opinions. If children behave badly because they are not sensible, parents should nip this behavior in the bud.
For children, it is very hurtful for parents not to consider their children's feelings, because it will make them feel that they are not respected and treated as independent individuals, so parents should first consider their children's feelings at all times, instead of blindly using them? For your own good? Kidnapping children.