-feeling after reading Fu Lei's letter

Everyone has biological parents, and most of them have experienced their love and teaching. When I read this letter from home,

What I feel is a different kind of teaching, not the teacher's teaching, not the advice of the elders, but the parents' concern for their children, which is different from the parents' concern, but what I feel is careful care. I think I found another one.

This kind of parental love is beyond most children's comprehension. This may be the reason why I have never lost my love for her in the past ten years. But the letter from home, like precious heart-to-heart talk again and again, has brought us closer. I am like a good girl.

Children are feeling, listening and remembering.

Father Fu Lei is a wise, knowledgeable and upright scholar. When he was young, he was even a little violent and full of personality. Mother Zhu Meifu is an oriental woman with oriental culture accomplishment and western culture baptism. She is dignified, virtuous and kind.

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Pro-Fu Lei dabbled extensively in literature, music, painting and literature at home and abroad, with profound research and high personal cultural accomplishment. His training goal is to receive a good family education from an early age and eventually grow into Fu, the son of an international master.

Plexus He deeply understands that art, even like piano playing, needs strict technical factors, but it is by no means a "craft", but a manifestation of wholehearted and complete personality. He educated his son and said, "I always thought it was good to study art."

Art or not, the most important thing is "people". We should cultivate a "person" as much as possible. Before becoming artists, we must learn to be human. Otherwise, no matter how clever that family is, it will not make much contribution to mankind.

A person who devotes himself to art has nothing but art and personal personality.

The so-called "man" is concrete and subtle in Fu Lei's mind, not only a wish, but also a slogan. This is great for the world and the people.

Loyalty and dedication to the motherland, ranging from the rigor of one's own career, filial piety to parents, understanding of his wife, tolerance to friends, even to the handling of a piece of music, communication with friends, and even to his son.

All the words and manners warn that "hands should be vertical and people should stand up straight", which left a deep impression on readers and made them feel deeply.

The mother of that sinister era was far away when her personal safety was not guaranteed.

Son and grandson, she restrained her inner fear and pain, and sent strong, peaceful and meticulous care to her relatives wandering in foreign countries. A sweater knitted for my grandson is as heavy as a mountain, but she is

In order to let her son feel the warmth of family in a foreign country, she meticulously wrote down the cooking program for fear of missing a detail. She loved her husband and son and devoted her life to this family. However, so is she.

For the unbearable trampling and insulting of personal dignity, the husband and wife combine their lives and move towards eternity, which may be more partial and also an end. However, this end has never been separated from them.

As role models of China people, the couple have been cultivating their two sons all their lives. Fu Cong, the eldest son, became a famous piano master, and Fu Mincheng, the youngest son, became a special English teacher. They teach them.

Children become "people" first and then "home". At the end of life, they end with the word "people". All good memories don't want to humiliate themselves, and I don't want to have so many unbearable unhappiness in my life.

Let's go They would rather abandon themselves and get a kind of relief to complete the interpretation of people.

Their death shocked me. I no longer feel pain for them as I did when I was young. I just want them to rest in peace for half a century.

It is their strict family education that has cultivated world-class masters of art, just as my friends Lou Shi and Fu Lei "disapprove" of their son Fu Cong's strict and meticulous family education. It is this strict family education that has made his beautiful life and left a mirror for thousands of parents in Qian Qian, Qian Qian. What did we give the children? How should we express ourselves for children?

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In the book, we not only see a strict and caring father, but also see the common growth of father and son. His music translation is to communicate with his son, and he cares about the development of the motherland and ancestors.

The love for the country is also displayed in front of the students. Fu Lei is doing his duty to the society, the motherland and the human world with a highly responsible spirit and heart. His son, Fu Cong, has absorbed rich nutrients during his wandering career in a foreign country, but his father

Put him in the position of an overseas orphan, as if his parents were still by his side, always give him guidance, encouragement and spur, so that he has the courage and strength to overcome all kinds of evil influences and resistance and embark on the road of growth he should have.

Through these letters, not only did my son establish a strong bond with his relatives, but also Fu Cong firmly established a spiritual bond with his distant motherland through this bond. Later, it was proved that no matter what kind of sufferings families in China suffered,

Cruel experience, regardless of his own notoriety, he never turned his back on his motherland, was not threatened and lured by the enemies of the motherland in many ways, and did not say or do anything that harmed the dignity of the motherland. This is a father's attitude towards his son.

The edification of a son is inseparable from his father's ardent patriotic education for his son who is thousands of miles away. Time and distance are not a problem. Caring parents and your restless love for your son are irreplaceable textbooks.

The gas station of life.

This concern is not the stage of consciousness, but companionship.

Fatherly love. The serious father never shirks his responsibilities. Even when Shanghai was surrounded by Japan as an island, he kept his children at home. It appeared in his young body and mind very early and was cultivated into a voice.

The quality of a musician, just as his spirit of being earnest and meticulous about himself, people, work and all aspects of life, is the same as treating children. He writes textbooks himself and gives lessons to the children one by one every day.

Make rules, personally supervise and strictly implement them. He stipulates how children speak, how to act, what to do and what to eat, which cannot be surpassed. He did, and he asked his son to do it together. It's a real father and son. I am alone.

Marvel at the affection between father and son, yes, friends and comrades.

In addition to feeling Fu Lei's rich translated works and impressive achievements, he is such a near-perfect person who combines art and life beautifully into his own life. His life is regular, life is a beautiful arc, and the bits and pieces left to us warm the hearts of every teenager, youth and parents.

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When treating his son, he said, "I am glad that I have another friend and my son has become a friend. What in the world can grow with this happiness? " Moreover, he said modestly and sincerely, "I learned from getting along with my son."

Patience, learning speaking skills, learning to sublimate feelings, teaching us how to get along with children and what kind of attitude to communicate with. "When a child suffers, he says," Bitter tears are the wine that edifies your soul.

People who have not experienced severe pain will not have deep and extensive sympathy. "Everything he does is not for children, but for the process of children's transformation, encouraging him to have a more sincere heart in art."

Outside, I just want to do my best and live up to my heart.

In order to guide his son to concentrate all his energy on research and study, use more reason and less emotion, and restrain all troubles with strong confidence, he said: "Art is the purpose, and skill is the means. People who always pay attention to means will inevitably forget his purpose. "

Faced with the money order that college students want to send to their parents, there is no other greeting. The father warned his son that writing letters is forcing you to sort out your thoughts and is also an excellent training. How much we need it now.

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In daily life, he warned his son that "people always have to push themselves." If they don't force themselves, they can't solve the problem. The most basic thing is to seize the time "; "Doing things scientifically and thoroughly"; "Don't be embarrassed in the outside world, right?

People just stay a little longer so as not to disturb the scheduled schedule. "Modifying small habits is equivalent to modifying one's own consciousness and temperament. "I think it is an urgent problem in our life.

However, such a person who is strict with himself and teaches his children, he said: "The name outside the body is only pursued and amazed by ordinary people in society; It has nothing to do with the smallness and greatness of the individual. Confucius' floating clouds of wealth and fame and modern' fame' also belong to spiritual' wealth'. The wise are indifferent to their own nature and should not be bound by greed. "。

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When he was an adult, his son faced emotional choices, but he also took the opportunity to help: "It is very important to find a partner who can recognize each other's shortcomings, admit each other, be willing to change gradually, and be tolerant of each other."

), to find a permanent partner, but also rational consideration, don't be blinded by feelings, convincing-marriage will change and you won't believe it, if you don't think of this in advance, you will suffer endless pain in the future. "

After they got married, he told them not to spend money on their hands. The more they despise material things, the more they need control.

Everywhere I read, I have repeated exhortations, warm reminders, confided like friends, and some even played it again, pitying the wind of inheritance. Are these gentle words like a trickle just the nagging of ordinary parents? This is a Millennium belief. Opening every page is refreshing, and my heart can always be dyed golden.

Letters written by sons Fu Cong and Fu Min to their father are also attached to the book. These letters don't seem to disappear forever. They are lucky to be read by our readers as such a good book, which adds a little democracy and equality compared with other warnings. Unfortunately, such a happy family was split up prematurely by the times. As an educator and a parent, I am pushing this book. Maybe you can learn more from it. You might as well read it yourself.

2. Feeling after reading Fu Lei's letter

Every letter from home is a cultural heritage, not to mention a "letter from Fu Lei". Letters from home, as the name implies, refer to letters exchanged between family members and relatives. Letters from home have a long history after the emergence of words. With the gradual enrichment of written language and the invention of paper, letters from home gradually became popular. Today, letters from home are one of the ties that maintain family ties.

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Letters, between the lines expressing deep affection, reflect beautiful interpersonal relationships, noble living standards, excellent moral traditions and patriotic enthusiasm. These contents are excellent articles of the Chinese nation.

Part of the culture. Take Fu Lei's letters as an example. The general theme of nearly 100 Fu Lei's letters is: educate children, act on their own, and take Chinese civilization as the standard; Determined to succeed, we should take serving the motherland as our primary task.

Books can be said to be the best interpretation of the excellent morality of the Chinese nation.

Fu Lei's letter opened a window for us to understand the past history and well preserved the memory of that era. It is precisely because of its existence that the excellent morality of the Chinese nation is clearly interpreted. It is not only Fu Lei's education for children, but also the criterion for us to act.

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In addition to teaching people to stand up and act, Lei Jiashu is also full of affection, and the affection revealed between the lines is touching. I can't help thinking of my parents. Although he is not a great man, he is not as famous as Fu Lei, and he can't make people stand up.

The truth that exists in things, but they think of me in everything. No matter what they do, they will think of me first and plan for me. There are many reasons in Fu Lei's letter, which is a valuable spiritual wealth. however

Isn't the daily teaching of parents the principle of standing and acting? My parents are not as reasonable as Fu Lei, but they have always been very kind to me.

After reading Fu Lei's letter, I learned a lot about being a man and felt the greatness of my family.

3. Feeling after reading Fu Lei's letter

Every family has a different way of education. A Letter from Fu Lei is a painstaking educational book. It is a rare good book, which is most suitable for parents and children to read.

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Ray's method of educating children is unique. He conveyed his true feelings to distant children through letters, sincerely guided his son's life and art, and secretly showed his concern and love for his son. Good family education.

Education is a good thing for children and can determine a child's life. After all, family education was the first teacher, and Fu Lei also educated his son into a talent in a good way, which made people full of praise.

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Many families want their children to succeed, so good family education is very important, but how many families can educate their children correctly? In China, many families are not properly educated and their parents don't care.

Communicate with children, do not understand their situation, do not guide them correctly, let them go astray, and finally regret it. Some parents think that children can't fight without fighting, and there have been countless domestic violence, which led to the death of their children.

Being hurt inside can not only make children sensible, but also make them rebellious. Parents should appreciate the book A Letter from Fu Lei and have proper family education. In fact, as children, we need to read it.

Because it can infect us, make us aware of our parents' good intentions, know how to thank our parents, let us know how to appreciate art and get correct guidance in life.

Letters from Fu Lei is a book suitable for men, women and children, and will certainly benefit people.

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I sorted out more than 80 letters from 1954 to 1966, most of which were written by my father Fu Lei to my eldest son Fu Cong, and some of them were

The mother wrote to her son. As a literary translator, Fu Lei translated 32 books in his life, with fluent writing, vivid writing and rigorous translation attitude. It is a painstaking teaching article full of fatherly love. It does not

This is just a letter from home and a written text of Fu Lei's study in Fu Cong thousands of miles away. The longest letter from home is more than 7000 words. Only by writing your own true feelings and catching a letter from home can you reach such a number of words. In the letter at home, Fu

Lei is very different from reality, completely subverting the cold Fu Lei and showing us the image of a loving father.

19551October 26th, when "satisfied", Fu

Ray advised children how to deal with emotional ups and downs. First, explain the control.

The necessity of emotion, secondly, is marked by a calm and objective analysis of the cause and effect, so as to become stronger and stronger. It truly expresses the feelings of all' experienced people' when they look back on what happened: desolate and calm, depressed and detached.

The letter was written when my son achieved great success and was surrounded by flowers and applause, encouraging him to remain humble at all times, not afraid of loneliness, dare to climb the limits of art, and at the same time use his son's success to give him more and show him.

A higher realm of life, to maintain a pure "childlike innocence."

"Strong" is the inner spirit that runs through this letter. Fu Lei said to the child: "As long as you can be strong, I will be relieved!" It can be seen that being strong is of great significance to life. Strong performance in two aspects: A is not afraid of setbacks, and B is always modest. That is, win without arrogance and lose with grace. This is what we can learn.

Fu Lei's rigorous academic attitude.

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Lei's rigorous academic attitude can be seen between the lines. As an educator and writer, Fu Lei naturally wants to educate his children to be as talented as he is. But children are not around their parents since childhood, so they use letters.

The relay of love began. It is very important that not every letter from Fu Lei is written in black and white. For example, when we took the exam again, we all wrote it in vain. This is a good thing for Fu Lei, which is not only a habit he has developed for many years, but also a far-reaching education.

It is an excellent opportunity for a son who is thousands of miles away to do things seriously. In addition, Fu Lei also taught his son to know more foreign languages in his letter, and even used French or English throughout.

It's written. In addition, you will find that Fu Lei is a person who does things with great efficiency. For example, some letters are short, so simply explain your intention. Fu Lei's rigorous attitude towards learning can also be seen from his masterpiece "Complete Things".

Success comes one by one, not messy at all, unlike the handwriting of a dying person. From his masterpiece, we can see that

It can also be seen that he is not only rigorous in his studies, but also full of sense of responsibility and strong patriotism. In addition, his pen is concise and clear, and he can't guess what is hidden behind it, thus creating a new round of writing disaster. Fu; Feed unit

Lei believed in faith all his life and didn't die.