It is conducive to strengthening the construction of socialist spiritual civilization. At present, China is in the process of building a well-off society in an all-round way. At the same time of economic development and opening to the outside world, it has brought some ugly phenomena and some bad atmosphere. Carry out civilized etiquette education, so that middle school students can develop good civilized etiquette habits and learn the ability to correctly handle interpersonal relationships. Civilized etiquette education is one of the important contents of quality education for middle school students, and it is of great significance to carry out civilized etiquette education for middle school education. Our country has a rich and precious heritage of civilization and etiquette. Educating middle school students on civilized manners is conducive to carrying forward our excellent traditional civilized manners. In today's world, the competition of comprehensive national strength depends more and more on the quality of workers and the civilized quality of all kinds of talents to some extent. High-quality talents should not only have solid cultural knowledge, but also have a high sense of social responsibility, good moral sentiment and civilized lifestyle, so as to be civilized and polite. Therefore, civilized etiquette education is the need to strengthen the construction of socialist spiritual civilization. Middle school students' mastery of civilized etiquette education can help them meet the development needs of social norms, and then meet social needs, cultivate their ability to adapt to social life, help maintain normal order and social norms, and, from a deeper level, help promote the normal operation of society.