Family education is the cornerstone of a person's growth and development. If the cornerstone is not firmly laid, it will be difficult to bear beautiful and full fruits in the later period. The hero who takes you in today is the black baby dragon known as "the father of Carnegie in China".
Highly educated and knowledgeable contribute to family education.
Carnegie is a world-renowned enterprise training course. Students can improve their comprehensive ability, such as expression ability, through multi-class core courses and training, and finally achieve the goal of improving their core competitiveness.
After years of continuous development, Carnegie courses now include many categories such as workplace, life, interpersonal, inspirational, parent-child and so on, for students with different needs to choose from.
Known as "the father of Carnegie in China", Black Young Dragon founded the kingdom of Carnegie in China after producing and hosting the knowledge program "Fire". Since then, Carnegie course has been popular in China, and he also won the honorary title of "Father of Carnegie in China".
When introducing Carnegie course, Black Dragon felt very excited and confident.
In the view of Black Young Dragon, we have been educated in modesty, listening and silently appreciating since childhood, but we just ignore the importance of expression. We are used to praising others but seldom want to express ourselves in public, and the information about interpersonal communication and self-confidence in Carnegie's course just fills the gap in demand.
The black baby dragon's school experience is also somewhat different. Unlike other people who got their degrees at a young age, Black Young Dragon didn't have a high school education until he was 43. 1983 At the age of 43, he chose to take his four children from Taiwan Province Province, China to study in the United States on the other side of the globe.
During his study in the United States, Black Young Dragon also observed the differences between foreign family education and China family education in his daily life, which also provided a new way for Black Young Dragon to think about his children's family education.
A few years later, through unremitting efforts and study, Black Young Dragon successfully obtained a master's degree from Loyola University in the United States. Later, Black Young Dragon's works "Slow Raising: Giving Children a Good Character" and "My Most Precious Life Value" were published one after another.
Create a unique educational concept
Talking about his views on parenting, Black Young Dragon summed up all his experiences in one word, that is "slow", that is, slow is slow to raise children, so that children can keep trying during a long period of study, even if they make mistakes, they will not fundamentally hurt their self-confidence and courage to try bravely.
As parents, in addition to guiding and educating their children when necessary, they should also grow up with their children in life and set an example of not escaping and not giving in when facing problems. In addition to the core concept of "slow raising", Black Young Dragon has many excellent educational concepts worth learning.
Like the idea of being friends with children. In the eyes of Hei Liyan, the son of Hei Xiaolong, his father is not like his father, but more like a good friend who talks about everything. In family decision-making, his parents never deprive their children of the right to participate in family decision-making because of their young age. If there is a problem, everyone in the family should express their opinions.
In an interview, Black Dragon's ten granddaughters said that their grandfathers played with them just like their friends. Black Xiaolong himself lamented that he likes playing with his grandchildren very much. He has no sense of distance brought by age, but only the happiness of playing together.
For example, encourage children to be their best. Heiliyan, the eldest son, thanked his parents for their encouragement and education since he was a child.
When he was a child, he often overslept and made some things very bad. However, after his composition won the first place in the class, his mother obviously stopped emphasizing his bad habits such as oversleeping and biting his nails. On the contrary, her mother has been encouraging him to do his own thing.
It is from this opportunity that Heiliyan's behavior has undergone earth-shaking changes, and gradually his talent began to show in front of everyone. Now Heiliyan has also become the executive chairman of Carnegie Training China.
For example, tolerance for children's differences. The second son, Hei Guo Li, said that parents appreciate the differences and characteristics of each child. His brother Heiliyan has always been good at school, but his own grades are not so satisfactory, but his parents never compare his grades with his brother's.
Because they know that once children's grades are compared, their grades become the standard for measuring children. It is the tolerance and encouragement of parents to Heiliguo, and Heiliguo does not expect to become the deputy medical chief of a well-known hospital.
Problem of juvenile has become an industry leader.
To the onlookers, the four children of Black Dragon all looked like "problem" children at first. When the eldest was a child, he was reticent and unwilling to communicate with others. When the second was a teenager, he was rebellious and impulsive. He used to skip class and fall in love. My daughter, the third, has been addicted to makeup since she was a teenager. She is even willing to go on a diet to save money on cosmetics. The fourth one got excellent grades, but dreamed of becoming a movie star.
The four children have their own characteristics, and the Black Baby Dragon constantly embraces the children's differences and encourages them to try their best to try what they like.
It is the unique education method of Black Dragon that makes his four children stand out.
Li Yan, the eldest son, holds a master's degree from Yale University. He is currently the CEO of Carnegie Training Greater China, and Guo Li, the second son, is a doctor of medicine from the University of California. Later, he became an associate professor and deputy medical director of the University of Washington School of Medicine, and his daughter Li Yan graduated from the University of California Law School. Lao Si Li Xing, a master of Stanford University, later founded his own company and served as the chief design officer.
Once problem of juvenile has become a leader in their respective industries.
Mr. Lu Xun once said, "Education is rooted in love". However, with the rapid development of electronic technology products, most parents ignore communication with their children, and children prefer to indulge in the online world rather than listen to their parents' nagging. Family education is becoming more and more superficial.
Mr. Tao Xingzhi once said: "Cultivating and educating people is the same as planting flowers and trees. First of all, we should understand the characteristics of flowers and trees, and fertilize and water them according to different situations. This is called teaching students in accordance with their aptitude. " This also coincides with Mr. Black Young Dragon's concept of "slow raising", and all education should be the beginning of our understanding of children's nature.
Many parents only pay attention to their children's academic achievements and ignore their talents and interests, which is another major problem in family education at present. From the fundamental point of view of education, academic performance is only the tip of the iceberg of a person's growth. Personality and body are two main factors that determine whether a person can go to a higher place, and academic performance is only a reflection of these two factors.
Treat children, only with love and tolerance to encourage watering, can we bloom the most gorgeous flowers and bear the sweetest fruits.