First of all, as parents, we should find out the reasons why children feel inferior and insecure. Is it because the family is poor, so I am not confident, or because my grades are not good, I am excluded by my classmates, or because I feel that I am not confident because I am plain. Find the point of self-confidence, and then targeted treatment, in order to achieve good results.
Tell children that no one is perfect. Although we may have some shortcomings ourselves, we can make up for them in other ways. At the same time, we might as well give children some examples to prove your point of view and make the statement more reliable.
The second is to give children enough affirmation, encourage them to do something, and don't let them fall into the dilemma of self-denial for a long time. As the saying goes, "No matter how good a person is, there will be shortcomings, and no matter how bad a person is, there will be advantages." As long as you are good at observation, you can always see the "bright spot" in your child.
When I was a child, I seldom communicated with people because of my poor grades and introverted personality. Even when people talk to me, I blush when I talk, and I don't know what to say for a long time. In the long run, I became a little autistic, and then my parents took me to see a doctor.
The doctor's advice is that parents should encourage their children more, and suggest that children find my specialty, take interest classes and "orient". My parents worked hard to find one of my "reluctant specialties" and finally decided to let me learn guitar, just because they found that I prefer music.
As a result, it is really useful. Because I have few extracurricular activities and strong interests, I can master the strings faster and learn better than other children. Later, I was appointed by the teacher as the representative of the music class in my class, and it was just like this that I gradually became a normal child and a normal person and regained my confidence.
Finally, parents should also teach their children to face failure bravely. In the process of our growth, experiencing some setbacks properly will help us grow better and faster. If you lose confidence and give up on yourself as soon as you encounter setbacks, then your life may be ruined by an unknown thing on an unknown day and time.
Life is not easy. If you have no confidence in yourself, how will you live in the future? Therefore, as parents, we should cultivate children's self-confidence and self-reliance from an early age, so that they can hold up a day of their own in the future.