Not because of the concept of respecting the elderly and loving the young. After a mother gave birth to a second child, although Dabao was only three years old at this time, Bauer was younger and often fell ill. Therefore, Ma Bao put most of his energy into Bauer, constantly boasting that the baby was sensible and didn't worry his parents. She not only lets her brother do everything, but also helps to take care of him. She is a qualified sister and a clever child.

Parents instill an idea in older children that you should make younger brothers and sisters and older children more sensible, which is also related to parents' education. Parents always like to instill more responsibility into their older children and educate them to take care of their younger brothers and sisters. After giving birth to the second child, don't be too busy with the child's life, especially when the eldest son and the second child are having fun and crying together. The mother even subconsciously accuses the eldest child, feeling that the eldest child is not considerate enough to share the responsibility for himself and make herself particularly busy.

But parents really shouldn't ignore that the eldest son is just a child. He is not as big as his second child, but he can't all grow up, because you are going to have a second child. The boss's behavior and reason are because he wants to prove himself and that he is their best child. I hope his behavior and reason can get the attention and love of his parents. If parents really ignore the boss, then with the passage of time, the boss may even evolve into a likable personality bit by bit.

Is the elder child's distress because of the elder child's distress? Be obedient? Many parents tend to neglect their eldest son, so they won't take care of him. In a second-child family, people always say? The boss is a fool and the second is a good boy? It's like the second child was born smarter than Dabao, but in fact, the IQ of the child has nothing to do with the birth order. Older children in two-child families are more sensible, decent and responsible, which is only caused by the environment, not in our nature. If you plan to have a second child, you must remember not to ignore the older child because you have a second child, and don't force the older child to understand immediately. He should also have the right to grow up slowly.