I think her emotional experience of failure in the future has something to do with her mother's education. Because a person's emotional outlook, or three views, is forged from an early age, especially what kind of education her mother has received, she is likely to treat her future emotional life in this way or this way of thinking in her later life.

Wang Fang, her father died when she was very young, and then her mother raised several children alone. And her mother is also a particularly strong person, so her strength was learned by Wang Fang. When she treats her feelings in the future, he must be a demanding person, and she can't stand a little injustice in her feelings. In fact, getting along with two people does not mean that there are certain benefits, but it is always easy to cause contradictions, which is also the reason why Wang Fang finally divorced.

In fact, there are many such examples in our life. Being born in a family has a great influence on children's views on marriage and even love. Many people have no sense of dependence and security because of bad parents' relationship when they were young, family breakdown, or father's long-term domestic violence, so it is difficult to walk into a relationship calmly when they grow up.

Moreover, some people have lived in a family since childhood, although there will be minor quarrels, but the overall tone is still happy. When he faces his feelings, he will be in another state, not that he is deformed and alienated, but that he will face gains and losses normally, some quarrels and disputes in his feelings, and other unpleasant things.

Sometimes the imprint of one's birth family can't be changed, and the influence of birth family is only your factory setting. Advanced players must choose a custom configuration. Only by giving up those bad things and exerting their subjective initiative to change can we effectively get rid of the influence brought by this family.