The old cognitive shackles formed our deep-rooted ideas, and the hearsay of others made people unconsciously lose the ability to think independently.
Who are the values made of? Whether the world outlook should be defined by others or whether we should establish our own belief system may be an answer in everyone's mind.
Although the times have been progressing, the thoughts of the older generation are still circulating in the hearts of the public, and not all people with higher education can escape this inherent system. When a person is imprisoned for a long time, his mind is castrated and trivial things are given a place to live, he will drift with the tide and never see the wider world again.
When I was a child, some teachers would always say that studying hard is fundamental. Don't be smart and stray from the track. Creative whimsy is often denied. Children complete passive school education, but their creativity gradually loses. Sometimes it's really hard to meet a teacher who discovers and encourages you to develop your talents.
When I was a child, I always heard the old man say that girls should step by step, have children and teach each other, but everything has two sides. Behind this side, there is freedom and enthusiasm, such as taking the road that few people take, being unmarried and infertile, and advocating equality and harmony. No one can define who, because everyone is an independent individual, and it is time to ask others to listen to their own theories.
You should see the world more multifaceted, move towards a broader and more inclusive sky, gather with the stars and let the light shine. The more you watch, the more you know what you want. Not all beautiful things are suitable for everyone. Some people like dim lights. Some people like the sun, not everyone wants to attract the attention of the public, and the standards of the public may not meet you. Solo in your own world, calm and leisurely, is not a kind of happiness.