Basic elements and methods of family education We know that good family education has a great influence on children's growth. If parents want to make their children better, they need to set an example. Let's introduce the basic elements and methods of family education!
Basic elements and methods of family education 1 1. Parents are both teachers and friends of children.
Nowadays, when parents educate their children at home, they should first understand the new characteristics of family interpersonal relationships.
Because of the change and development of social development, everyone's concept of democratization has been widely improved. Parent-child communication in the family is not the connection of children's unconditional obedience to their parents under the patriarchal clan system in feudal society, but a new interpersonal relationship between parents and friends.
Therefore, in family education, parents should stick to their basic views, opinions and ways. Parents are not only their children's teachers, but also their children's friends.
Only in this way can we conform to the new characteristics of today's family social ecosystem, and it is possible to create a new intimate and relaxed parent-child communication method from the source, thus laying the foundation for doing a good job in family education from the source.
Under the specific guidance of such viewpoints, opinions and methods, in family education, parents should ensure that children should be strict and kind, and education should be combined with love.
The attitude towards children should be more relaxed and tolerant, more heart-to-heart activities, less despotism, more exhortation, less dogma, more smiles and less sadness. More friends' friendship, less parents and teachers' true identity.
In that way, the relationship between parents and children will be intimate and loose; Conducive to the emergence of children's personality independence. Only in this way can we not only do a good job in family education, but also create a close new family interpersonal relationship.
In contemporary family education, parents should ensure that example is better than words.
The so-called teaching by example means that the education of children depends on both language (including writing) and action.
Words and deeds include face-to-face language education, persuasion, inspiration, encouragement and criticism. It also includes the use of words, letters, family rules and other forms. In family education, teaching by example is very important, which cannot be abolished or underestimated.
Understanding children's various situations, exchanging feelings, communicating thoughts, giving guidance, imparting knowledge, exhorting, encouraging and criticizing are the main methods and channels.
Use writing, letters and other pen teaching methods under special circumstances. For example, educators and educatees are not allowed to meet, so they have to use letters, letters and other forms. In a word, writing teaching is one of the basic forms and methods of educating children.
The so-called role model is to educate and motivate children with parents' practical actions. No matter what children are asked to do, educators must first do it themselves. Their duty is to ask children to respect the elderly and honor their parents in teaching.
Then, educators themselves should first respect the elderly and honor their parents, so as to set an example for children and let them follow suit. If you don't respect your old people, but ask your children to respect and honor yourself, it will be very difficult.
For another example, if you ask your children to be frugal, you should do the same yourself, instead of wasting money or spending money like water.
If you ask your children to love learning and work hard, you must first love learning and work hard, and so on. In short, no matter what children are asked to do, they should set an example for them with their own actions, otherwise the effect of education is not good.
The so-called example is more important than words, that is, when educating children, we should use our own good actions to influence, influence and touch them, instead of blindly giving orders to ask them to do such and such things, saying one thing and doing another.
Generally speaking, family education can be done well as long as we can really combine teaching by example and teaching by example is more important than teaching by words.
Second, adhere to the combination of strict requirements and patient persuasion.
Family education, the master's work is ideological education, ideological transformation of his own children, pointing out the direction, correcting mistakes, clearing the fog, shaping children's soul, morality and personality, and ideological work of being a man. The key is to change people's ideas and attitudes and arouse people's enthusiasm.
Mandatory orders can only bind people's words and deeds for a while, but not for a lifetime. Therefore, family education should combine strict requirements with patient persuasion.
Because of the parent-child relationship between educators and educatees in family education; During this period, there is love between parents and children, which is far more intimate than other interpersonal relationships. Therefore, as long as we adhere to the combination of strict requirements and patient persuasion, education can achieve better or better results.
The so-called strict requirements are the requirements for children. The content should be correct and the requirements should be high. Children who violate the requirements or make mistakes cannot be let go, nor will they be investigated and asked. We must make them realize their mistakes and correct them, and we must not tolerate them and let them grow and develop.
Basic elements and methods of family education 2 What is a family? There must be parents and children in the family, which is also the basic element of family education. Parents are the main teachers and children are the main recipients of family education, and family environment is the intermediary for parents-led educators to influence children's development.
Family is the first "school" in life, and parents are the first "teachers" of children. The survey shows that 49. 1% of minors admit that their parents have the greatest positive influence on them, so it is very necessary for us to understand the status and role of parents in family education.
Thinker John Locke once said: "What kind of person a child can become in the future depends entirely on what level of parents the child is and what level of family education the child received during his early growth."
It can be said that family education affects the fate of a child's life. This sentence seems absolute, but it proves that family education plays a vital role in children's growth.
Marx attached great importance to parents' education of their children. He once said: "There is no treasure more sacred than parents' hearts for what we have experienced. Parents are the kindest judges, the most considerate friends, and the sun of love, which warms our desires with their own flames. "How important is the mission of parents.
From the World Declaration on the Survival, Protection and Development of Children, several key points of parents' mission can be summarized.
First, let every child enjoy a bright future.
Childhood should be a happy and peaceful era, an era of playing, learning and growing up. During this period, parents should take their children to broaden their horizons, help them gain more experience and let them gradually mature.
In fact, in the process of playing games with children, parents can also grow. As the saying goes, teaching and learning learn from each other, and the family exhibition found many different surprises. Xiao Hum lives in a second-child family. One day, his mother said to his sister, "My sister is really an obedient child. My mother says she will do everything. " .
My sister was secretly pleased. My sister said, "I want to have a baby as obedient as my sister in the future." The world of children is always magical.
Children should grow up in a family atmosphere full of joy, love and mutual understanding.
In order to develop children's personality comprehensively and harmoniously, they should grow up in an environment and family atmosphere full of joy, love and mutual understanding.
The harmonious relationship between parents will exert a subtle influence on children's physical and mental development. If a child can feel the unity and friendship of his parents in his heart, then he will follow suit and behave more coherently in teamwork.
Children whose parents are indifferent to their families will be relatively withdrawn and have poor interpersonal skills. This has a lot to do with not feeling the love of family.
Third, make every effort to create a suitable living environment for children.
In family education, choosing a suitable educational environment for children should take into account the cultural environment that children are willing to accept. In other words, we should respect children, treat them as "people", observe their personality characteristics and needs, and seek ways suitable for their growth for family and education.