Love, as an eternal topic of human beings, has been sung and recited for thousands of years, but some literary works are in the opposite direction and are skeptical about love, such as Dream in Unit 2 of Compulsory 2 of People's Education Press. "Self-protection" is a love warning to women all over the world. The heroine in the poem recalled with great sadness the pain of being abused and betrayed by men from love to marriage. In teaching, we mostly understand the content of this poem from the purpose of dictation of college entrance examination scenes, and analyze the heroine's marriage, emotion and metaphor, but fail to explore the influence of the poem itself on the love aesthetics of high school students. But I just think that Meng's influence on high school students' love concept should be our most important teaching purpose.

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After half a semester's study and life, senior one students gradually get familiar with each other, and there are frequent exchanges between boys and girls, and their goodwill is gradually established. At this time, the Chinese textbook "Meng" gave students a lesson about love aesthetics in time, which made them alert and reflect, and gave them a vivid lesson for their happy life in the future. 20 17 《 Curriculum Standard for Ordinary Senior High School 》 has the following requirements for compulsory courses: read more books and think more, observe life from multiple angles, improve Chinese accumulation in many ways, enrich one's spiritual world, life experience and emotional experience, improve one's personality and enhance the realm of life; The standard of students' academic quality also requires the following: in literary appreciation and language expression, they can have a unique emotional understanding of the artistic image and value of works, pursue correct values, and have noble aesthetic taste and taste. Based on these two requirements, I think the greatest significance and value of Meng to senior high school students lies in its influence on their love aesthetics.

? This poem is narrated in a woman's tone, so it is the most sincere warning to female students in high school. So, what kind of love aesthetic influence can girls get from it?

First of all, don't be fooled by a man's appearance. "In order to protect ourselves, we should embrace the silk trade. The bandits came to trade silk, just to ask. " In the future, you should recognize the true character of the people you associate with. Don't be like the heroine who didn't polish her eyes. The real intention of the man who didn't find "Sophia Kao" was not to "change silk", but to discuss the hypocrisy of marriage with me. I didn't see that a seemingly honest man is actually grumpy, fierce and extremely unfaithful to love.

Secondly, we should adhere to the principle of making friends with the opposite sex. Don't lose the principle of being a man just to please someone. Since there is no good media, we can't decide the wedding date hastily. The "good media" in marriage is reasonable and conforms to the etiquette norms of the society at that time. Why don't you insist, but give in-"if you don't get angry, you will have an autumn"-laying a curse for your happy life later? "Scholars are also extremely useless, and Germany is also two or three." First, change ideas; "Three years old for a woman, there will be a dynasty. Sleepless all night, there must be a dynasty. As for violence, "be fierce again; "Women don't like it, but scholars do." In marriage, the heroine is not at fault, but she suffers misfortune. On the other hand, it is women who don't stick to their own principles that make men more unscrupulous, don't know how to cherish, and abandon love like dirt!

Thirdly, love is not the whole and dominant life, so don't devote yourself unconditionally. In the poem, the woman warned the women in the world with the lesson of blood and tears: "If you are a woman, you will not be anxious with the scholars." The anxiety of scholars can still be said; You can't say you're a woman. "Men who indulge in love can get away quickly, while women who indulge in love are not easy to get away. In well-known literary works, from Liu Lanzhi who died for love in Peacock Flying Southeast, to Du Shiniang who drowned in anger in Treasure Box, and then to Lin Daiyu who died in a Dream of Red Mansions, who didn't die because she was addicted to love? In today's fast-paced lifestyle, women addicted to love abound, and many people still repeat the old practice of double suicide! And the concept of double suicide is twisted and abnormal! Therefore, girls should not wait until they are unable to extricate themselves, and then regret it. But from now on, improve your aesthetic interest in love and life realm, and improve your personality.

? Moreover, never boast of your youth and appearance, but improve your inner temperament and taste. All the beauty of youth will never return with the passage of time, and everything attached to youth and appearance will deteriorate and disappear at any time. The beauty of youth "before the mulberry falls, the leaves are luxuriant" will eventually "wither and fall"; Women's love and marriage are also discolored and degenerate. Therefore, girls should improve their aesthetic taste, which is poetic and bookish. Moreover, the love exchanged with the unchanging beauty in our hearts will accompany us all our lives.

Finally, we must make a decisive decision and resolutely quit if we recognize the facts and clarify our thinking. When a woman clearly realizes that "a woman is unhappy, what does a scholar do", she would rather endure the incomprehension of her relatives, and "my brother didn't know, but she smiled", but she should also look back flatly, live with dignity without wronged herself. "Growing old with you always makes me complain." In the betrayal marriage for fear of being laughed at, even she can't forgive herself for living without dignity. "Swear, don't think about it. On the contrary, I don't think about it, I am already embarrassed! " Make a clean break because of men's unprincipled betrayal. "qi has a shore, and there is a plate." For women, unfaithful love, unprincipled love, inconsiderate love and unrequited love are not worthy of our maintenance and nostalgia. This kind of fortitude and perseverance of women is the most precious, and it is also the most worthy for us to experience and learn.

Of course, for high school boys, this passage is enough to affect their love aesthetics. In love, boys should never be hypocritical and be honest with each other; We should not judge love by its external beauty, but by its internal quality and faithfulness, otherwise we are not qualified to have truly noble love. Love is pure and sacred. We should measure it with correct love values and win it with mature cultivation. Don't reach out easily and profane it casually. Only in this way can high school students, as young people, reap a happy life in the near future!