First, the importance of family education
Family education has a vital influence on children's growth and development. Family education is not only a transfer process of knowledge and skills, but also a transfer process of values, life attitudes and concepts. In the family, children receive not only knowledge education, but also emotional education, moral education and code of conduct.
Second, parents' improper practices in educating their children.
1. Excessive anxiety: Parents may show excessive concern and anxiety about their children's academic performance and interpersonal relationships for various reasons, and even ask their children to make a mountain out of a molehill or make trouble without reason. This practice will make children feel too stressed and even lead to childhood psychological trauma.
2. Abuse of rights: When educating their children, some parents ignore their children's feelings, overuse their power, punish or exert pressure on their children, and ignore their feelings and needs.
3. Parents interfere too much: Some parents may interfere too much in their children's lives, including study, entertainment and social interaction. , so that children lose the ability of self-awareness and self-management.
4. Dependence on education: Some parents spoil their children too much, which will form their dependence, and children will easily lose confidence and sympathy in the face of difficulties.
5. The evaluation is too strict: Some parents measure their children's performance through too strict standards, requiring their children to achieve the ultimate in both study and life. This evaluation method is not conducive to children's cognition and self-confidence.
Third, from a legal point of view.
Family education needs us to look at it from many angles. From the legal point of view, family education belongs to the category of civil disputes. If a child is injured because of family education problems, the victim can safeguard his rights and interests through legal channels and ask the perpetrator to bear corresponding responsibilities.
In addition, the education department and the government have also issued relevant policies and regulations on family education. For example, the Law on the Protection of Children's Rights stipulates the basic principles and measures for protecting children's rights and promoting their development, and relevant departments and institutions should stop and deal with violations of children's rights according to law.
Fourth, the solution
1. Establish a good family atmosphere: the family should be a warm harbor for children to grow up, so that children can learn and grow in a warm and harmonious atmosphere. Family members should actively communicate, understand and respect children's personality, and give them support and encouragement.
2. Attach importance to emotional education: Parents should attach importance to emotional education, create a stable family environment for their children, maintain close relationships, and convey positive emotions and attitudes.
3. Carry out correct education methods: Parents should carry out different education methods according to their children's age and personality characteristics. In terms of educational methods, we should adopt such methods as encouragement, guidance, inspiration and inspiration to create a positive learning atmosphere.
4. Respect children's personality: children are independent individuals, and parents should respect their personality and hobbies and give full play to their intelligence.
5. Parents should enhance their own quality: parents should improve their own quality and upbringing, improve their emotional understanding, life skills and communication skills, so as to better care for and educate their children.
To sum up, it is not uncommon for parents to have improper practices in educating their children, which has an important impact on their growth and development. It needs the joint attention and efforts of parents and all walks of life to create a better family education environment and provide better conditions and support for children's growth and development.