This phenomenon is very common. Please introduce the specific situation of the child first. Cong is not smart, and he doesn't have to look at it with the eyes of ordinary people. It is common not to work hard, and there is no interest in learning. Timid children are introverted and have something to do with family education. Please add the following questions in detail.

Spend more time with him.

I can see that you pay great attention to introspection, so you should spend more time with him in the future. Parent-child activities and parent-child games can stimulate children's confidence, and of course they can also cultivate the feelings between you. You can also guide him and educate him through play.

Discover his specialties and hobbies.

In the second step, you will find his specialties and hobbies, with the emphasis on guidance. You can take him to the youth activity center, let him choose, or study with him. The success of interest will give the child a sense of accomplishment and stimulate his thinking.

Marginal culture

The education of such children lies in guidance and side training, so don't be impatient.

♀? Don't have negative emotions.

Never think that my children are stupid or inferior to others' children.