Whether a child's quality is good or not and whether he will be filial to his parents in the future often depends on how parents educate their children. Some parents educate children who are very filial, but some parents educate children who are rebellious. So what are the taboos in family education and which are the easiest to raise rebellious children?

1. There is an old saying in China that a dutiful son is born under a stick. The meaning of this sentence is easy to understand, that is to say, only beating the child can make the child filial to himself, but in fact this is completely a wrong concept. Once a child makes a mistake, parents will not listen to any explanation from the child, but only know how to fight violence with violence. Then the end result will be that children hold a grudge and have a worse impression of their parents. When they grow up, they will gradually alienate their parents, and even some children will rebel until they grow up and finally rebel with hatred. Therefore, we must not listen to the educational concept of filial piety under the stick, which has long been out of date.

2. What did the child say? Although some families do not advocate filial sons under sticks, they will overindulge their children. When children are young, they will make some very excessive demands, and parents will try their best to satisfy their children. As children grow up day by day and demand more and more, parents have to pay more and more, and parents will still pay without regrets, but even if they do, in the end, I find that such children are not very filial. Even when children put forward some requirements that parents can't meet, children will complain about their parents and even insult them. However, it is precisely because parents love their children too much that they can educate such children. Even when these children grow up, they may have some violent tendencies in the face of unsatisfactory things.

It is common in China to hurt children's self-esteem. The so-called repressive education means that parents keep talking about their children's shortcomings, such as poor academic performance, not being smarter than other children and not being able to do anything well. In fact, most parents often want to motivate their children in the process of complaining. However, not all children are so strong inside. Most children face their parents. After constant suppression, they will only become less and less confident, and may even hate their parents in the end, which will eventually lead to the breakdown of parent-child relationship.