Cai is a famous "family educator" in China. Cai Xiaoyao's own road to study is more difficult. 194 1 was born in Ruian, Zhejiang. Because of his family background, he was expelled from a key high school and then went home to start self-study. It took him one year to complete the senior high school course, and he took the college entrance examination that year. Or because of my family background, I didn't go to college. Later, Cai became a primary school teacher in his hometown. He was rated as an advanced individual because of his excellent work. Later, under the recommendation of the school, Cai was admitted to the Physics Department of Hangzhou University, which is now Zhejiang University, with full marks in three subjects. Because of his poor family, he dropped out of school to study medicine to support his family. It is precisely because of his academic regrets that he is particularly concerned about his children's studies and education. I hope every child can succeed in school and have a bright future.

Cai has six children in his life, five of whom got a doctorate and one got a master's degree. They all have successful careers. Cai, the eldest son, is a Ph.D. student at Cornell University, a tenured professor at the University of Pennsylvania, and a peer reviewer at the National Foundation. Cai Tianwu, the second son, was admitted to the CASPEA doctoral program funded by Li Zhengdao and later became the vice president of Goldman Sachs. The third son Cai Tiansi, Ph.D., St. John's University, USA, is now starting a business in China. Cai Tianrun, fourth son, doctor, Arkansas State University, USA, is now a private hospital. The fifth son, Cai Tianjun, holds a master's degree from China University of Science and Technology, and now works in China Construction Bank. The youngest daughter Cai Tianxi, 18 years old, became a doctoral student at MIT and the youngest associate professor at Harvard University at the age of 28. Cai's third-generation grandchildren were also admitted to MIT. If it is accidental or accidental to bring up one child and two children, then it must be regular for Cai Xiaoyao to bring up all six children. Cai's success in family education is no accident. His educational thoughts and methods are worth studying and studying.

A warm, comfortable and loving family atmosphere is a good soil for children to grow up. All children have a bright future. It's not how good Cai Xiaoyao's family conditions are. On the contrary, their family of eight used to be poor and lived in an old house. When the children were young, my family rented an old house in the country, with two floors, each floor 16 square meters. As a rural doctor, the first floor is for Cai Xiao to open a clinic at night, and the second floor is a small space for a family of eight. But this is an old house, bearing the children's happy childhood and lofty ideals. Cai Xiaoyao spent the night in this old house, reading and entertaining with the children. He never forced his children, but practiced by himself, sacrificing his communication and entertainment time to study with them. He copied the test papers for the children and sorted out the materials.

Mrs Carnegie said, "Don't care too much about the appearance and form of the family. The most important thing is to pay attention to a unique family full of love, warmth and bright atmosphere. " As parents, giving their children more time, such as brushing their mobile phones, following dramas, shopping, socializing, and more high-quality companionship, their children will become better. This reminds me of Wu Yishu, the champion of the second season of China Poetry Conference who was admitted to Tsinghua. The father is a lawyer and attaches great importance to his daughter's family education and training. After 4: 30 every afternoon, Wu Yishu's father always turns off his mobile phone to accompany his daughter to study major. Bing Xin said: "A beautiful family is the root of all happiness and strength." In order to create a happy, harmonious and learning-friendly family atmosphere for children, parents must be accompanied by high quality.