Children must be with them when they grow up. Companionship is the best love. Many people may feel tired to death because they work hard to earn money to support their families. How can they have time? This idea is very dangerous. You don't know how important your words, your smile, your encouragement, your appreciation and affirmation are to children. When the child needs you most, you don't know how serious your absence will affect his psychology. These effects are lifelong, so no matter how tired, parents should chat and joke with their children every day.
2. Find children's bright spots and stimulate their dreams.
Everyone has talent and deserves education and expectation. So this responsibility must be borne by parents themselves. You must find what your child likes and understand his interests and ideas in school, chatting and playing. Then guide the child to set an example and stimulate his dreams. The power of example is infinite. Parents themselves are role models for their children. Your words and deeds, your style of thinking, will subtly affect your child's life.
3. Cultivate children to learn to learn and guide them to learn actively.
When a child has an example and a dream, as long as you give him some guidance, he will consciously take the initiative to learn. Of course, parents need to work hard on learning methods, and your growth is more important.
4. Cultivate children's imagination and expressive ability.
Let him talk about what impressed him the most every day, and talk about his own views and feelings. It may be a little superficial and disorganized at first. The later the better. The cultivation of his self-confidence is very effective, and his language expression, writing organization and imagination are all improving.
5. Cultivate children's quick response ability. Quick thinking, such as knowledge quiz, sharp brain turn, etc. The body reacts quickly, such as sports and games. These must be your joint participation. After the interaction, you can do some punishment and reward.
6. Increase children's knowledge, participate in social activities and take children to travel.
In this process, you can give him some tasks and reward him after completion. You can also ask him to arrange activities, and then parents can help. Then we must sum up our experience and ask him if there is a better way.