Parents' speech on family education:
Good afternoon. First of all, on behalf of all the teachers in Class 3 (1), I would like to extend a warm welcome to you and express my heartfelt thanks for your trust and support as always. Everything for children's development is our common goal, so it also gives us a common topic.
First, class introduction
There are 38 students in this class, including boys 18 and girls 20.
Our Class Three (1) is a healthy, progressive, united and friendly group. Boys are smart and lively, while girls are diligent and practical. Advantages of students' work and rest and study report: Most students have good behavior habits and study habits. Can finish on time and take an active part in all kinds of school activities. Disadvantages: Students are not active in speaking and slow in doing homework. Some students have a poor sense of discipline, and they rarely speak in other classes or even have a low position, which affects class. Some children have poor self-consciousness, poor study habits, poor learning foundation and poor academic performance, and often do not finish their homework, do not finish their homework as required, and do not finish their homework. Few children often don't do their homework and lie that they have left their homework at home.
Characteristics of Grade Two and Grade Three
Parents all know that the third grade is a climbing grade, but why it is a climbing grade is not clear to parents. In primary school, the last thing a teacher wants to teach is either grade one or grade three. This is because the first-year students just entered school and don't know anything. Everything has to start from scratch. We should not only teach him knowledge, but also cultivate his good behavior habits and study habits. Grade three students have just entered the middle grade from the lower grade. This year, the knowledge that students need to master flooded in. Parents only need to pay attention to their children's test papers, and they will find that in addition to the first and second grade words, idioms, ancient poems, famous sayings, rewritten words, quilt words, reading comprehension, exercises, etc. are all waiting for students to hunt. At this time, children's development is in a slow stage and needs the help of teachers and parents.
What I want to say now is that parents must attach importance to family education. Good guidance from parents is the gold of family education. Only by mastering children's psychology and grasping budding education can children gradually step into the right path. Educating children is the responsibility of our teachers and parents. It is the wish of our teachers and parents that students come to school for education, improvement and progress. I hope everyone can really care for their children rationally. Gorky, a great writer, once said, "Spoiling is a poison that goes into a child's mouth by mistake. If it's just for love, even an old hen can do it. " Spoiling is a low-level instinctive love, true love is rational and noble love, eating and sleeping is love, and teaching children to suffer and succeed is greater love.
Third, explore the problem of educating children.
1, with children learning.
Some parents are anxious when they see that their children are lax in their studies and their grades are not satisfactory for a while. Some parents often complain, reprimand or even bother to take care of it. This is very wrong. As we all know, there is a process to develop study habits. It is understandable to be eager for success and hate iron for not turning into steel, but in fact it is impossible. Therefore, it is necessary to strive for success or turn iron into steel in order to have an effect. So, where should parents start to improve their children's academic performance? The first thing is to do your homework. It is stipulated that children must finish their homework after school and must check it. Don't rush your oral homework and review your homework.
Children often hate homework. The reason is:
First, the ability difference.
In the class, each student's intelligence is different, and their speed and quality of understanding knowledge are also different. For the same amount of homework, some students spend more time than others, making it more difficult to complete. If there is no one to help supervise at this time, over time, these students will easily lose confidence and dare not do their homework.
Second, the purpose of learning is not clear.
Playing is a child's nature. Since the implementation of weekends, students have spent more time on extracurricular activities. If parents only pay attention to their children's work and don't guide them correctly, it is easy for them to indulge in watching TV and forget everything. Some children want to play more, and it takes half an hour to solve their homework in a few days. There are children, have fun first and wait until school the next day. We really can't finish our homework in a hurry. The quality of this kind of homework can be imagined, either scrawled or full of mistakes. Therefore, parents should always care about their children's holiday study and urge them to finish their homework on time and with good quality.
Third, weak will.
When students come home from school, it is often the busiest time for every family. The children are eating and playing, so they are unhappy. I wanted to do my homework after dinner. If parents turn on the TV and want to watch TV for a while, some children don't want to do their homework, so they watch TV with relish. As a result, the homework was delayed. The next day, I was anxious and quickly made up my homework. Therefore, parents should set rules for their children, go home from school, do their homework before playing, instead of letting their children go.
Students can't finish their homework well. Besides the above reasons, there are other objective factors. Therefore, if children don't do their homework seriously, parents should know the reasons in time and carry out targeted education. You should concentrate on your studies carefully and have the courage to overcome the difficulties in your studies. Your writing should be neat, clean and accurate, and you can't be half-hearted. Think about problems and do homework accurately, quickly and with high quality. Language expression should be clear and vivid, oral recitation should be skilled, and children's weekends should be concerned. It is often seen that on weekends, the business of the game hall is particularly prosperous, and most of the people sweating around the game machine are primary and secondary school students. Imagine what children can get on such a weekend. On the contrary, some parents attach great importance to their children's weekends. In addition to urging children to complete their learning tasks, they also take them to nature, so that children can feel the beauty of life and the affection between people, and at the same time provide a broad source of writing. Therefore, it is necessary for parents to pay special attention to their children on weekends. Excuse me: What are your children playing at weekends? How do your children play on weekends? How do your children play on weekends? If parents can give proper guidance in these three aspects, your children can learn knowledge that books can't learn and benefit a lot.
2. Cultivate children's healthy psychology and good conduct.
I will talk about my views from several core aspects of child training:
1. Faced with education, parents need to re-learn and be qualified parents who grow up with their children. Speaking of growing up, it seems like a child's business. In fact, growing up is not a patent for children, and parents need to grow up. What do you mean by growing up? It is the gradual accumulation of people's knowledge, ability and experience, and people become more and more mature and achieve more and more. Example 1: A ten-year-old child will say to his father, "Dad, you are so great!" At the age of twenty, I will say to my father, "Dad, are you okay!" " "At the age of 30, he might say to his father," Dad, those ideas are out of date! " "At the age of forty, I'm afraid I will say to my father,' Dad, you don't understand. Have a good old age! "Why is there such a big change! Because children are growing up, parents are marking time. So I think, for the sake of children, if parents really want to communicate with their children and have a common language with them, they should keep learning, try to update their knowledge structure and become educators and guides in their children's growth.
Children are constantly learning and accepting new information and new ideas. They have a wide range of knowledge and high comprehensive quality, such as computer and foreign language proficiency. Now many parents have fallen behind their children; If we want to be a successful parent, we must keep learning and grow up with our children, otherwise we will fall behind, not to mention our influence in children's minds.
2. Respect children and the law. A philosopher said that there is a vast sea of people. Have you ever seen two identical leaves? Every child is unique in this world, and everyone has their own physical and mental development process. The truly successful education is to make every child become himself. He has an independent personality, individuality and his own interests, specialties and hobbies. Don't treat children as your own clones. Let children realize their dreams that can't be realized in this life. Where you succeed in this life, your children will succeed. I often hear parents say, "Why can't you learn math well? Your father is one of the best students in the class. " "Our family graduated from college. Why is his grade so poor? " We didn't go to college because of some things, and the hope of our whole family is on you. Parents, please think about it. Although the child was born to us, it was another person after all. He may not be as smart and capable as you, and he has no obligation to realize your ideal for you. Don't be too hard on children, otherwise, it will easily lead to children's rebellious psychology. We should have correct expectations and training objectives, and have a scientific evaluation view.
3. Give children wisdom and love, and don't spoil them. What is doting? Spoiling is to satisfy children blindly regardless of whether their requirements are reasonable or not. The difference between intellectual love and doting is that intellectual love is comprehensive care, especially care for children's hearts; Spoiling is one-sided concern, only taking care of the child's superficial needs. So, what should we do? First of all, we should teach children the skills of survival. Teaching children to learn to survive is the primary responsibility of parents. Someone once made a survey on more than 60 top candidates in the college entrance examination. During the investigation, they were asked the same question: "What do your parents care about you most?" Everyone gets the same answer, but the answer is not "learning" but "being a man", which is the fundamental difference between successful education and unsuccessful education. "Life education is the soul of successful education. The parents of the top scholar have mastered the "outline" of educating people, and the outline is open to everyone. As long as they are a little better, other problems will be solved. "
Do parents know how the tiger, the king of animals, trains his cubs? According to the information provided by relevant experts, there are three processes for a tigress to raise her cubs. At first, it came back from hunting, tore the tender meat into pieces with its claws and fed it to its cubs. Later, when he came back from hunting, he ate the meat himself and threw the remaining meat bones to the young tiger. Later, when it came back from hunting, it ate the meat and threw away the bones. When the young tiger came forward to eat, he yelled at it and put out his claws to stop it from eating. After several days like this, the cubs are too hungry to stand, so they will leave their mother and find food by themselves. At first, the tiger took a few steps and turned around. The tigress growled at it and raised her sharp front paws. The little tiger turned his head and walked forward again. Repeat this several times until the cubs really leave. This "cruel" love forces the cubs to grow up. Animals can still do this, let alone people?
The story of American billionaire and oil tycoon Rockefeller family educating their children sets a good example for us. The Luo family has five sons. Someone once warned, "Anyone who has your money and five sons may have at least four black sheep at home." But on the contrary, the Luo children have never enjoyed the treatment of any super-rich, with no swimming pool, tennis court and baseball field. In Luojia Manor, children wear the same ordinary game clothes as employees' sons and play various games designed by themselves. Caring for, but not doting on, educating them into good people first is a characteristic of Rockefeller family's education of children. Every Saturday after breakfast, five children line up to walk into their father's office, from childhood to leaving home for college. Everyone gets a week's pocket money in this way. Interestingly, when each child receives pocket money, he will get a small account book to remember how to deal with the money. The amount of pocket money is always less than needed, and it is impossible to get it, so the rich people in the future will start to do housework to earn money: for every 100 flies caught in the corridor, five points for every mouse caught in the attic, moving firewood, piling firewood and pulling weeds every hour, and so on. Nelson and Lawrence, aged nine and seven, were granted the franchise to clean the family's leather shoes, at five cents for each pair of shoes and ten cents for each pair of boots. There are many servants at home, but children should learn to take care of themselves from an early age. Father took the lead in mending their clothes, teaching them to fold clothes and tidy their suitcases. Under such strict requirements, none of the five children became the black sheep in the end, not only taking over his class, but also developing the Rockefeller family's career.
It can be seen that caring should not only take care of children's material needs, but also take care of their spiritual growth. Spoilers can't see the latter, only on the surface, children love to eat ice cream and go to McDonald's and KFC. As a result, this connivance can only help children develop selfish and lazy bad habits. Love is not a bad thing. You should love your children as much as possible. There is really no need to put half of it. The Rocks don't love children, but they don't just meet their demands materially. It teaches them to learn to be human, to be thrifty, to cherish wealth, to be good people first, and then to become talents. Such love is the love of wisdom. "I only know that I can meet the so-called love of children materially. Strictly speaking, it cannot reach the modern level of human love. Human rational love should mean four aspects: care, understanding, responsibility and respect.
4. Teach children to be honest. Honesty is a passport to civilized society and an intangible asset for children. Parents' role models are words and deeds, and trustworthy parents are authoritative parents and influential parents. Maybe everyone has heard the story of Ceng Zi killing pigs. Ceng Zi, whose name was Zeng Shen, was a native of Lu in the Spring and Autumn Period and a disciple of Confucius. Ceng Zi was deeply taught by Confucius. He is not only knowledgeable, but also very honest. He never cheats others, even for his own children. One day, Ceng Zi's wife was going to the market, and the child cried and asked to go with his mother. So his mother lied to him and said, "Good boy, wait for your mother at home and kill the pig for you when she comes back from the market." The child believed it and ran home happily, shouting, "There is meat to eat, there is meat to eat." The child stayed at home all day, and when his mother came back, friends from the village came to visit him, but he refused. He leaned against the wall, basking in the sun and imagining the taste of pork, not to mention how happy he was. In the evening, the child saw his mother come back from a distance. He ran forward to meet him in three steps, shouting, "Mom, mom, kill the pig, kill the pig, I'm dying of greed." Ceng Zi's wife said, "How can a pig kill people in our family for two or three months?" The child cried with a wow. Ceng Zi heard it, and when he knew the truth, he didn't say anything. Turn around and go back to the house After a while, he came out with a kitchen knife. Ceng Zi's wife was frightened, because Ceng Zi was always very strict with the children, thinking that he would teach them a lesson, and she quickly put her arms around them. But Ceng Zi went straight to the pigsty.
The wife asked inexplicably, "What are you doing in the pigsty with a kitchen knife?" Ceng Zi replied without thinking: "Kill the pig".
The wife listened to a sloped smile: "But what pig should I kill in the New Year?" Ceng Zi said seriously, "Didn't you promise your child to kill pigs for him? Since you promised, you should do it. " The wife said, "I'm just lying to the children." Why should I talk to them seriously? " Ceng Zi said: "It is more important for children to keep their promises. Otherwise, isn't it obvious that children should lie like their parents? " ? Adults don't keep their words. What qualifications do you have to educate your children in the future? "The wife bowed her head in shame after hearing this. The couple really killed the pigs for their children and gave a banquet to entertain the villagers, asking them to educate their children to set an example. Although Ceng Zi was laughed at by some people, he educated honest and trustworthy children. The story of Ceng Zi's killing pigs has spread to this day, and his character has been admired by later generations.
5. Cultivate children's good habits. Good habits are the foundation of a healthy personality. Story (1): A foreign-funded enterprise in Beijing has high requirements for academic qualifications, foreign languages, height and appearance, and many high-quality talents come to apply. These young people, with five passes and six generals, reached the last pass: the general manager interview. These young people think it's simple, just going through the motions. Unexpectedly, something went wrong in this interview. As soon as we met, the general manager said, "Sorry, young man, I'm in a hurry. I'm going out 10 minutes. Can you wait for me? " The young man said, "No problem, you go first and we'll wait for you." When the boss left, the young people were full of pride and complacency. Looking around the boss's big desk, they saw a pile of documents, letters and materials. Young man, look at this pile, I will look at this pile, and communicate after reading it: "Oh, this looks good. 10 minutes later, the general manager came back and said, "The interview is over." "no? We are still waiting for you. " The boss said, "when I am away, your performance is to be interviewed." It's a pity that none of you passed the exam. Because our company never accepts people who rummage through other people's things. Hearing this, these young people beat their chests and feet. They said, "We have never heard of not rummaging through other people's things."
Story (2): In 1960s, the Soviet Union launched the first manned spaceship, and the astronauts were called Gagarin. At that time, when the first man in space was selected, there was an episode in which dozens of astronauts went to visit the spaceship they were going to take. Gagarin was the only one who took off his shoes when he entered the hatch. He thought, "How can you enter such an expensive cabin with your shoes on?" Gagarin's action moved the chief designer very much. He thought: I can only rest assured if I give this spaceship to someone who cherishes it so much. On his recommendation, Gagarin became the first astronaut to fly into space. So some people joke that success begins with taking off your shoes. Actually, it starts with good habits. Think about it, which family and school often carry out such education? Turning things over is a habit and curiosity when I was a child. The child went to the door and saw someone's drawers rummaging through them one by one. When mom and dad get off work, the children will go through mom and dad's bags. However, for children, this is a feature, not a shortcoming, he is just curious. This is the lack of education. If adults don't correct and educate in time, they will become accustomed to it and become a habit.
These stories tell us that habits are formed from small things, and both good and bad are related to education, but we ignore these problems. We pay too much attention to children's homework, grades and rankings. In fact, the most important thing is a person's habits. Is the priceless treasure of life. This is also the significance of our school's strict and standardized requirements and management for students from these small things: sitting, standing, lying and walking.
6. Respect and understand children and create a democratic and warm family education environment for children. Family is a child's first class, and parents are a child's first teacher. Parents' words and deeds are very important to their children's education and influence. Parents' outlook on life, values, parents' interests, hobbies, parents' attitudes towards people and things, life interests, etc. Will have a subtle influence on students. For example, according to a survey of children who smoke, more than 80% of children smoke because of their parents, and as a result, children become addicted to taste from their initial curiosity. Children grow up in mahjong and playing cards, and they will get used to it and feel normal. If parents have a hobby of reading and live an elegant life, children will naturally be affected. It is said that they are arrogant and straightforward. The stories of the three major movements in ancient Meng Mu also illustrate the influence of the environment on people. Communication is a necessary condition for parents and children to understand each other. Parents should learn to squat down to communicate with their children and learn to listen. They should not always see their own shortcomings. Calm down and be a listener and appreciator. You will find that your child has many advantages, and it turns out that your child is also excellent. Parents should educate their children by reforming themselves.
7. Cultivate resources that children can develop.
(1) sense of responsibility, parents should always want their children to take responsibility, such as doing something wrong, letting him be punished, doing housework at home and so on.
Know how to love others and let children learn to care, such as respecting parents, honoring the elderly, speaking politely and so on. This is a good lesson that parents must give their children. You need people who know how to care about others, not selfish people. People who take me as the center are good for your career development. )
③ Good education. American writer Henry? James said that there are three most important things in life, the first is kindness, the second is kindness, and the third is kindness. Compassion and love are important factors to help you succeed in life.
Have a good attitude, be optimistic, win or lose, strive for and give up. Persistent pursuit, calm face, open-minded optimism.
⑤ Abide by rules, sense of rules and sense of order. There are no rules, Fiona Fang. Regardless of family, society, collective and sense of rules, it is the embodiment of a person's basic quality. With rules, we can be respected and welcomed. With rules, we can share the joy of life.
⑥ Financial management education. It is not easy to cherish and understand parents. Parents should tell their children the hard work of making money, teach students to cherish the existing learning and living environment, and teach students to be grateful.
⑦ Make reading a lifelong habit for children. The knowledge learned at school is limited. Cultivating students' strong interest in learning and good reading habits is an inexhaustible source of a person's life.
Dear parents and friends, the purpose of family education and school education is the same, and they all hope to train their children into adults. Then, let's show respect and understanding for children and schools. Only with respect and understanding can schools act according to the teaching rules and children have the motivation to learn. I sincerely hope that parents will follow the laws of education, participate in school education and teaching, and become participants, supporters and allies in school education. Let our families and schools work together to create a warm, healthy and positive learning atmosphere for students, so that students can really grow up healthily. I wish all parents a happy life, a happy family and a smooth career!