When some mothers hear the word education, they think it means studying, reading, writing, reading textbooks, doing homework and doing casual books.
Recently, there is a feeling that children should talk to him more, play games with him more and run and jump outdoors more in preschool.
Talking with children can exercise children's eloquence and their thinking ability at the same time, because what a person wants to say is basically what he thinks in his own mind, and he can only say it when he thinks it over, so speaking is actually very important, which can not only make children become agile in thinking, but also improve their communication skills.
I have some experience, such as discussing a topic with friends, and making new discoveries when chatting, which is very beneficial. This is called exchanging new knowledge, and it is the same for children.
When I was at school, I heard a word-"brainstorming", which said that a group of professionals got together to build an idea for a specific problem, and then everyone kept thinking according to this idea and then put forward their own opinions, and then everyone discussed various opinions and put forward new ones, until finally everyone felt perfect and the problem was solved.
Although there is no sense of tension and rhythm when parents talk to their children, there is always some information in the words, which is very useful for children to expand their thinking.
Therefore, parents should pay attention to their own language when talking to their children, and don't nag some biased parents narrowly, such as whose child is not good, don't play with him; Which relative did something wrong to his family, and so on. Instead, he should present more positive and good things to his children.
In the process of talking to children, adults are likely to say something that children don't know. Children are curious and will definitely ask what this means immediately, so adults can explain it simply and clearly. It is more effective for children to listen carefully and concentrate than what the school teacher teaches them. Because that's the question he asks himself, he will listen attentively and keep asking when he doesn't understand until he understands. This is the most effective study.
Many parents are afraid to play games, because in some people's minds, playing games means doing nothing, wasting time and being bad.
Actually, this is a misunderstanding of the game. Of course, some boring games in reality have destroyed people's goodwill towards games.
I like playing hide-and-seek with children very much.
The game of catching the ball can exercise the child's hand-eye coordination ability and increase his exercise, which is a good exercise. Many physical and intellectual extracurricular classes do similar sports, and the fees are quite expensive. Parents play with their children by themselves, which not only exercises their children, but also saves money and increases their happiness. This is killing three birds with one stone. Why not?
Game coloring is one of my family's favorite games. He likes to color objects. The more colors, the more he likes them. For example, a colorful banana, although unrealistic, is really beautiful. He said that he likes all colors, including black and gray, and I only like very bright colors.
Coloring is very beneficial. It can not only train the pen holding posture, but also do pen control training to ensure that the colors outside the frame will not be drawn. This is a test of the opponent's ability to control the pen. Only when you can skillfully carry a pen can you not draw outside.
In the past, children's kindergartens often gave children pen control training. At that time, they drew it askew. After frequent coloring, they are very skilled with pens, drawing quickly and drawing straight lines, which makes me feel ashamed.
Coloring can not only train the ability to hold and control pens, but also enrich children's horizons. Different colors are presented on paper, which is also a stimulus to children's vision and is very beneficial to cultivate color and beauty.
Simply talking about these two games, I feel that there are many benefits, and there are many other games.
Therefore, not only writing and reading is learning. Many games contain a lot of learning, which is easier for children to accept and easy to repeat and consolidate many times.
Preschool children, illiterate and unable to sit still, might as well play games with him and talk to him more. It is really a very good thing, which can be said to benefit him for life.