Failure to educate children correctly in many aspects will make children have certain psychological changes. Then when children have their own consciousness and begin to learn to resist, this kind of education will become the intensification of contradictions. Although the starting point is for the good of children, this kind of education is not advocated in many senses. When parents educate their children too gently, they will think that their parents are bullies, so they will think that everything they do is soft-tempered.
No matter what kind of requirements and handling methods, parents will compromise, so making good use of strictness and gentleness will better educate children. Gentleness and strictness are what every parent should do. The children educated in this way will neither be too soft nor too rigid. In contrast, they will have a good judgment on their own lives, and will not be psychologically pressured by these improper education methods. Then they will have a lot of their own opinions in the process of growing up, can keep pace with each other, and use various methods flexibly, which is acceptable to many people.
Let children go out of their parents' arms and blessings to face a better tomorrow, so this is the significance of every parent's education. Being willing to let go and watching children spread their wings and fly will have different effects.