The key to the problem is to teach children various civilized habits and rules in daily life. These are all things that children don't know and one person can't figure out. Humans can imagine and speak freely, but they cannot do whatever they want. Here's what parents should tell their children: We have no right to damage other people's things and it's wrong to take other people's toys. However, parents' job is not just to tell their children these rules. Parents must also force their children to obey the rules and punish them if they break them. Even if the child only does a very "small" wrong thing, parents should resolutely punish him. For children, he/she is always consciously testing whether the rules said by adults are really important. This is related to how children understand words. So the attitude of adults is very important.

2. When educating children, praise should be more than criticism to divert children's attention.

Those so-called "bad children". Some children look bad, such as playing pranks and playing with toys. If they can't always criticize their children, they will feel embarrassed or unhappy and lose their enthusiasm for doing things. A more reasonable way is for parents to praise their children appropriately, affirm their practical ability, and then guide them reasonably. If children often break down, such as destroying furniture and clothes at home, parents should try their best to distract their children, such as letting them sort out scattered playing cards and spending more money to sort them out. With this kind of work, children will not think about collapse, but also exercise their hands-on ability.

Educate bad children in a cruel way to satisfy their curiosity.

Desire is deep in our hearts, so we have another job to do: to guide children to find some reasonable ways that conform to social rules and are allowed to satisfy impulses. This is very logical for children. His parents wanted to forbid him to do this and explain to him that small animals would die painfully because of it, which he didn't know. But will the child stop there? No, if you don't achieve your goal this time, children with doubts will find other opportunities to realize their wishes.