I used to think it was easy to be a good person.

You can pick up money and be praised; You can help others and be praised: you can make contributions and be praised without regrets.

But in the face of reality, good people are so small that many people scoff. But you don't know that good people have lost their value and significance these days. Just because of a little thing, others forget all about your good things and only remember your bad things deeply.

So, you ask, how to be a bad person?

I think the best way is to put away your good feelings for others, take out your selfish feelings for others like others treat you, and slowly erase your idea of being a bad person. And all this is so difficult to do, so everything should be simple.

The so-called bad guy means that when you see a person clearly, your goodness is just a nuisance to others, just like a toy that you are tired of playing. You can throw it away at any time, and your bad mood will be completely crushed. You will become selfish and will not be better to such people.

Although you should learn to be a bad person, you should be kind to be a bad person. Therefore, it is very difficult to learn how to be a kind and bad person.

One of my best friends, Jane, is a kind and naive person. She doesn't care about love and treats people sincerely. Jane dropped out of high school before finishing her studies and stayed at home for more than a year. When she was young, she went out to travel and set foot on the society. At first, she did a lot of work, met many things, met some so-called friends, and saved some money herself. Whenever a friend encounters difficulties, Jane is always the first to lend a helping hand, thinking that it is fate to meet and know each other. Without saying anything, she used her home to help others. She never realized it.

Until later, Jane went home to work for a while and met a friend, Zhang Xiaoyu. Every day they go to work together, get off work together, play together and go out to play together. They feel much better than ordinary people. Jane really treats Zhang Xiaoyu. She is ill. Jane takes care of her, buys her medicine and celebrates her birthday. Jane didn't say that she would buy her a cake to celebrate her birthday. She thinks about Zhang Xiaoyu on big and small issues.

The eve of the storm is calm, beauty is always short-lived, and everything is as Jane thought.

Jane's birthday, Zhang Xiaoyu said nothing, nothing happened, just like turning into air. Jane didn't wait for Zhang Xiaoyu's blessing, but she knew something. Then, Jane called Zhang Xiaoyu and invited her to dinner. Zhang Xiaoyu will come out soon. While eating, Jane told a joke: "Today is my birthday. Either you buy me a cake or you will come out when I find it.". When you celebrate your birthday, I am still eager to help you prepare well. " Zhang Xiaoyu replied: "You are voluntary. Of course, I didn't ask you. "

At that time, I was really stupid. I suddenly didn't know Zhang Xiaoyu in front of me. She slowed down, looked at Zhang Xiaoyu in front of her, said nothing, and ended the meal in a hurry, and the two parted ways. Jane didn't fall asleep that night.

Bad things will always follow. Jane's physical examination found something strange and needed to have a good rest at home. She quit her job and went home, and life passed slowly. I really don't have enough money. She remembered the money she had lent her friend before, so she politely asked her friend if she could pay her back some money first. However, suddenly, my friend didn't make any movement. Jane wants to talk. The other party is either on the phone or avoiding her. Jane realized that all the friends she really treated were selfish people, and all the money she lent was wasted. She wept bitterly and saw her so-called friends thoroughly. She doesn't blame anyone but herself for being naive and kind. She even thought it useless to be a good person and ended up with nothing. It's really the most down and out time. Let's see some people clearly and grow more.

Everyone always thinks that being a good person is the right thing, but when you are a good person, you will be disappointed and think that being a bad person is better.

In the later days, a friend of Jane called to care. At some point, my friend asked Jane, I feel that you are different now. Jane paused and said, that's good. You don't have to be that stupid person. Thanks to everyone around me. Jane hung up the phone and deleted all relevant contacts. She has decided to treat others as others treat themselves in the future, in order to protect herself and to be worthy of herself.

Jane doesn't want to be a bad guy anymore, but she should learn to be a bad guy who thinks for herself. This is called selfishness. Jane's natural kindness can't be rejected. When he sees a poor beggar, he will still lend a helping hand. When he sees stray cats and dogs, he will try his best to keep them warm. Maybe that's it. It's easy to be a good bad guy, but it's still a little difficult to be a good bad guy.

In recent years, the news has always said, "Should the old man be helped when he falls?" Perhaps most people are very alert now and will not help the elderly easily, just because a kind-hearted person once helped the elderly, he was sued. I can't tell you such a thing. The warning to many people is that such a good thing will not be done easily, but only for yourself. And this is only a slim possibility. That kind-hearted man is unlucky. I believe he will never do such a thing again, preferring to be a bad guy.

And how can we be a good person and a bad person?

In the final analysis, it depends on your own understanding. Maybe you have had a real experience, but you gradually realize that being a bad guy only needs selfishness, and being a good bad guy needs kindness, selfishness and tolerance. It is difficult and easy to be a good person and a bad person, which varies from person to person. To be a good person, you must at least have a kind heart.