Ask the child what he thinks and why he feels cold. Is it because he thinks his tattoo is different and particularly cruel? Explain whether the child is insecure and wants to get the attention of others. The child is too young to tell whether he is incompetent or not. She doesn't know what tattoos mean to her.
Second, it's better to let her know that the tattoo is not good. You can try to show her what's wrong with tattoos. Tell her clearly and calmly from the views of peers and people around you on tattoos. Knowing the advantages and disadvantages of tattoos, she made her own decision. If she finally wants to get a tattoo, you can make a promise until she is 18 years old. At that time, it is estimated that she will have the ability to distinguish right from wrong, and she will not want to get a tattoo.
Third, face to face, don't shoot to death, find out the reason, and make a decision that children won't regret. I think our country's culture is still relatively introverted, so our understanding of tattoos is extreme. Just like a NATO saying, it is like building a mountain in people's hearts, which is hard to change. But since it is the child's own idea, as long as it is not too big or too small, parents should encourage, support and slowly correct it, so that the child can bravely make some relatively correct decisions in the future.
If the child talks to you in advance, you should celebrate. Don't refuse her, let her get a tattoo first. Take your time. It may be that the child was impulsive, and after a while, the tattoo's mind changed. She is curious that some things are normal, and parents may be rebellious if they preach blindly.
Tattoos are not beasts, but when you are old, you can judge your future choices. If you really like tattoos, let her post them. You can change the Arabic characters in the picture at any time. This is the only time that is about to pass.
I think no matter what happens in this generation or that generation, you can only express your opinion. Of course, when you were young, you hated your parents' control over you and didn't do what you wanted to do to others. Now that you have children, you have become an educational style like your parents. But have you ever thought? Times are changing. What kind of changes? Even today's children, you can only treat them as adults, to be clear, at your own risk.
As parents, it is necessary to persuade patiently or let relatives and friends around you persuade. This age group is very rebellious, and tattooing on the back will have many negative effects on later life.